Infant Colic

How To Survive Those Tough Months

While no one knows exactly what causes colic, there are some theories as well as treatments that can help you to deal with your colicky baby and many sleepless nights.

Infant colic can be increadibly hard on the family, but in the middle of everything, remember that it does pass.

Infant Colic And How To Deal With It

• What is colic?
• Possible causes of baby colic
• Symptoms
• Possible treatments
• Tips for parents
• YOUR colicky stories

What is colic?

The definition of colic is (usually) that a young baby cries for more than 3 hours more than 3 days per week and that all other reasons for the crying have been ruled out. Some places the definition is that the baby cries for three hours every day. 10-20% of all infants in developed countries get colic and it is just as common among breastfed babies as formula fed. The start of colic is uncommon among babies that are younger than 2 weeks old and older than 3 months old. Colic is very uncommon in developing countries.

Possible causes of baby colic

Another theory is that it is mainly gas that creates the problem.

There also sometimes seems to be a connection between mom consuming dairy products and colic in her infant (if she breastfeeds).

All these theories are based on the baby's behavior during the crying spells. It looks very much as if the baby is in great pain.

However, recent research indicates that the babies' brain reactions are more similar to anger than pain. Somehow I think I could endure better the thought of my baby being furious than in pain, even if it is very stressful anyway. As far as I know, however, no one has yet been able to explain why the babies would be angry. A theory that relates to this, however, is that colicky babies are more sensitive to over stimulation than average babies, and hence need more peace and quiet.

Symptoms

Your baby may turn red from crying and may at times show signs of relief when passing gas.

The signs of colic generally start at 2 to 3 weeks of age and last up to 3 to 6 months, usually 3-4 months, though. This will not affect how your baby grows or how he or she will develop.

Possible treatments

However, since the causes of infant colic are so poorly understood, the treatments available are not that great either. As a general rule, the doctor will do a series of tests to rule out any medical problems. For example, ear infections, urinary tract infections, acid reflux and cow's milk intolerance can give similar symptoms.

One of the home remedies you can use is to feed your baby in an upright position to help eliminate too much air from being swallowed.

You should also try to be sure that you feed your baby in a quiet, calm room.

If you are breastfeeding, you may want to cut out spicy foods as well as dairy products as you could be passing it to your baby when your breastfeed and some colicky babies appear to get better when particularly lactose is completely excluded from mom's diet. To learn more about what to eat while breastfeeding, click here.

If the baby is formula fed, using a formula with no lactose in it may also help.

If you smoke, stop. Nicotine is known to cause tummy pain in infants.

Many babies suffering from infant colic react positively on baby massage. You'll find my review of an excellent book on the topic here.

Another interesting book (found below) is by a pediatrician who explains why acid reflux is often mistaken for infant colic and what you can do to help your baby.

Another rather cute remedy is a baby tummy wrap that you can make warm. Remember how increadibly good it felt to put a warm wrap on yor own tummy when the first contractions set in? A heated tummy wrap can be a great comfort for stomach pain, not just for babs with colic. Just don't overheat it!

When it comes to medicines, colic gripe water is found by many parents to somewhat help their babies.

There is also a "real" medicine that has proven effects on colic, but since it also has adverse side effects it is usually only given to children with particularly severe colic. Ask your pediatrician for advice.

Tips for parents

If you just can't take it anymore, it is better that you put your baby down some place safe and walk out of the room for a while, rather than risking to hurt your baby.

The 5 S's may provide help.

Keep in mind that babies like to be cuddled or swaddled, so wrap your baby up and try walking with him or her or rocking while you cuddle.

Also remember to take turns. It is extremely hard and stressful to take care of a newborn baby that just won't settle no matter what you do. If you are a single parent, this is really the time to test your friends. Even just 10 minutes away from your crying child can help you cope with the situation.

YOUR colicky stories

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