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Mom’s Question:
Could you explain the difference between milk protein allergy or lactose intolerance in a toddler?

My daughter is almost 15 months old. She has been off of formula for a few months. I have switched her to 2% milk, and she seemed ok for a while but now she throws up curdled milk every morning (very chunky); sorry for being so graphic!

It smells awful, her stools also smell awful but are very hard, sometimes like little tiny pellets but a lot of them.

Are these signs of milk protein allergy or lactose intolerance in toddlers?

Everything that I have read about milk allergies talks about diarrhea not constipation and lactose intolerant says hives and vomiting etc.

I have noticed her cheeks have been very red lately and she does have thrush.

Should I give her some kind of lactose-free milk? Or stay away completely? If so, what should I give her? She loves her bottle at bedtime and even sleeps with it next to her. She always has some milk, goes to bed and then throws up on the way to daycare in the morning.

Just frustrated and any help would be appreciated!!!

Easy Baby Life:

Signs Of Milk Protein Allergy or Lactose Intolerance In Toddlers

It does sound to me too as if your daughter is not agreeing with the cow’s milk. It is true that diarrhea is a more common symptom of milk protein allergy than constipation, but hard stools are a symptom too.

Lactose intolerance and milk protein allergy are different situations, but the symptoms can be similar to some extent.

Symptoms of Milk Protein Allergy

The most common symptoms of milk protein allergy:

  • Loose stools and diarrhea. Possibly blood in stools.
  • Vomiting and gagging
  • Belly pain and bloated belly
  • Rashes and eczema
  • A runny nose and/or watery eyes
  • Constipation (less common symptom, but does occur)

Symptoms of Lactose Intolerance

The most common symptoms of lactose intolerance:

  • Bloating, gas or diarrhea
  • Nausea
  • Belly pain

With lactose intolerance, the symptoms usually appear about 30 minutes after consuming the milk. With milk protein allergy, the symptoms may come instantly (less common) or gradually increase over a few days or weeks.

The fact that the milk vomit is curdled doesn’t really say much, it is due to the casein in the milk reacting with the stomach acid.

Is it Lactose Intolerance or Milk Allergy?

This is a good question since the symptoms are often very similar.  However, here are some clues to narrow down what is going gon :

  • Symptoms of lactose intolerance rarely develop in people younger than 6 years of age. Before this age milk problems are more frequent due to milk-protein allergy.
  • Typically, babies younger than 6 months with milk-protein allergy develop diarrhea and eventually vomiting after several weeks of being fed with formula. If you think back, did your baby have any of these problems earlier?
  • The baby gets rashes after consuming milk. It is hard for me to say if your daughter’s red cheeks are in ay way related to her milk consumption, but they could be.  Rashes after milk consumption are associated with milk protein allergy, not lactose intolerance.

What to Do when Suspecting Milk Allergy in Toddlers

I think it would be wise to take her off the cow’s milk completely and see if it helps. If it does, then you know this is the reason for her constipation and spitting up of curdled milk.

Then you can try offering her lactose-free milk in small amounts and see if that works. If not, she probably is allergic to milk protein and will need to stay off cow’s milk completely (until she grows out of the allergy; many children do at around 3 to 5 years old.)

I would also suggest that you take her to a pediatrician and see if they can run tests to check her for lactose intolerance and milk protein allergy, as well as to discuss other options to feed her, like for example soy milk or other alternatives.

(Don’t try soy as a substitute on your own if you test to take her off cow’s milk because quite a few (15-20%) of children that are allergic to cow’s milk protein are allergic to soy protein too).

Alternatives to both cow’s milk and soy milk are for example any cereal-based “milks”, such as oat milk or almond milk.

Do not give your baby rice milk (read about why here).

Hydrolysate-based formulas are a great alternative but are expensive and many children don’t really like the taste. But if you talk to a pediatrician such formula may be available on prescription.

I hope this helps,


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  1. Vanessa

    I am not sure if my 3-month-old is lactose intolerant or has milk protein allergy. All I know is for the first month and a half I breastfed and supplemented with milk-based formula. I cried with my baby every night and all day because he would cry and cramp up. I went to 2 doctors and they told me it was colic and nothing I could do.

    Finally, one doctor put it together, he had a massive rash on his face, he was crying all the time, cramping up after eating, and had diarrhea. I started him on Soy formula, not knowing all the downfalls to it, but it worked. Everything cleared up in ONE DAY! yes! ONE DAY! It was a new baby.

    I am not sure if my baby is lactose intolerant or if he has a milk allergy, and I do not like the smell or the taste for my baby of the hypoallergic formula, smells like pure medicine. Is there a lactose-free formula out there that might be good? Again I am not sure if he is lactose intolerant or allergic to cow milk protein. How will I be able to know which it is?

    And is there a few different formulas out here best to try? My dr recommended Enfamil Lactose free, but I can not find that it stores, and buying online is not for me when it comes to formula. Thank you!

    1. Paula @ EasyBabyLife

      First of all, kudos for not giving up, but continuing to seek second opinions to get a proper diagnosis for your baby. Absolutely wonderful that the symptoms disappeared as soon as you switched to soy formula!

      I do understand the difficulties with knowing if your baby has a milk protein allergy or is lactose intolerant. Check the symptoms described in this article.

      Due to the rash, it does sound more like milk allergy, but you mentioned that your pediatrician suggested Enfamil Lactose Free. Therefore, it seems to me that your doctor does not believe that your baby has a milk protein allergy. As it is important for you to know which it is, I do think you should head back to the Doctor’s office and ask for clarification and testing. As far as I know, there isn’t one single lab test to check for milk allergy, but it can be done.

      The only way to prevent the symptoms of milk-protein allergy is eliminating cow’s milk from the diet of your baby. If your baby does not have lactose intolerance, breastfeeding is the first option.

      If your baby cannot be breastfed, you can use complete milk protein hydrolysate or amino-acid based formulas. Partially hydrolysate formulas should not be used in children with milk protein allergy. Many babies that are allergic to cow’s milk-protein will develop soy protein intolerance if they are fed with soy-based formulas. For that reason, soy-based formulas are usually not recommended for children with milk-protein allergy – although it does seem to work well for your baby.

      I hope this helps,


  2. Lil

    DO NOT GIVE UP..! When my son was born he had a milk and soy protein allergy… There was only 1 type of formula that was available for him during this time. Since I wasn’t crazy about the thought of formula I basically went on strike… I cut out all milk and soy protein out of my diet and breastfed my son… YES, IT WAS VERY HARD, but I wanted the best for him. I alternated this formula when he was almost a year old and after he turned 14 months, we introduced whole milk. He eventually outgrew the milk and protein allergy but I chose to stick with Soy and Almond milk for most of his diet. SO, again don’t give up… Your baby is worth every sacrifice you have to make… Good luck

  3. Amanda Russell

    Just a couple months ago my son was diagnosed with mastocystosis, (too many mast cells in his body, pushing out the histamine which leaves bruise-like marks all over his body). He has had these marks
    since he was 1 1/2 months old and is now 14 months and we are just finding out about this.

    He has always been a puky baby we just dealt with it, diarrhea off and on, cough all the time. We now have
    been told this is from his mast problem. He is now on allergy med to help, all confused as to how. But trying it.

    For the last 10 days he has been coughing so much that he pukes up white curdled milk, so now
    I’m wondering if he is allergic to milk, but he does not go for his allergy test til Oct 2019. Should I try and put him on soya or lactose milk, or is it just all his mast problem?

    1. Paula @easybabylife

      I am so sorry to hear about your baby’s illness. Throwing up curdled milk is, however, not in itself a sign of milk allergy. Milk becomes curdled when it reacts with stomach acid, so it is nothing strange that it is curdled when your son vomits. However, can be a sign of milk allergy, although most often together with other symptoms as specified above.

      If I were you, I’d discuss your concern with your son’s doctors, to see if they think you should try to change his diet in anyway.

      Good luck,


  4. We too!

    My son is 18 months now and just got ear
    tubes. Ever since he turned one and got on whole milk he has been sick.
    Symptoms included vomiting curdled milk, fussiness, runny nose,
    sneezing, redness around his eyes, constant ear infections, hard pellet
    like poop then switches to diarrhea. He screams ALL THE TIME!!

    He used
    to be a lil fatty and ate all the time, but since whole milk, I would be
    lucky to get him to eat anything. Even after getting the ear tubes 3
    weeks ago…symptoms are still here. He has to have food allergies.

    doc kept telling me it is from his ear infections or he has the bug…but I
    don’t think so at all. The ear surgeon even told me his vomiting like
    that has nothing to do with the ear infection.

    I found on the internet a
    site called foodallergysolutions.com and it shows that most ear
    infections with continuous symptoms are caused by milk allergies. I hope
    this helps. I plan on taking him back to his doc tomorrow than to an
    allergy doc. Just so you know I know exactly what you are going through.

    I hate the constant throwing up curdled milk (STINKS) constant laundry,
    baths and carpet stain remover…oh yeah frebreeze too. The constant
    screaming and hyperactiveness. He will seem fine most of the day then
    BAM pukes, runny nose, congested with a cough…he gets me so confused
    sometimes. ugh…..

  5. Struggling mom

    Both of my kids have had reflux/colic. I don’t
    really know cause it’s so hard to get help. My son – just gone one has
    been on lactose free formula for most of his life and now that he is one
    he needs a different milk…… solution, lactose free milk from the
    supermarket……. you would think that would be ok- but no way – I swapped
    him slowly by mixing them together and then eventually to just the milk
    and no formula but he has the runs, his stomach swells, he spews curdled
    milk and he screams!!!!
    They did a test and said he is not lactose intolerant so what is he? any ideas or experiences would be a great help!!!!

  6. Grand-ma

    My grand-daughter could not digest infant milk
    of any type, her tummy would get huge and wouldn’t have bowel movement
    for a while – when she did it was hard. So, after trying different infant
    formulas at 8 months, we switch to soy milk and she has done well with
    the milk.

    The doctors have asked us to switch to fresh milk – we tried
    and she went back to having the same problem. Therefore, we stayed with
    soy milk and she is now two an half.

  7. Rose

    It could be and sounds as if your toddler may
    have a milk allergy, all three of mine had the same issues, I had to
    give them Lactaid milk, as even soy milk would not work for them. The
    hard white stools is an indication that he or she is not digesting his
    or her milk properly. I would try soy milk for a few days if you do not
    see an improvement in a week to two weeks then switch to Lactaid milk.
    Lactaid milk has the hard to digest milk protein removed from it. I had
    to have all three of mine on this for a year, after which I was able to
    move to soy milk for a year and have just now at age 4 gotten them to
    where they can digest 1% milk. As always consult your dr before making
    any changes.

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  9. Paula @easybabylife

    Hi Kylie, this could be due to a number of reasons. Acid reflux or milk protein allergy are two possibilities. Simply feeding to quickly is another one. What formula are you giving her now? If you haven’t, try switching to a hydrolysate formula or a soy-based one. (Just be aware that quite a few babies that are allergic to milk protein are also sensitive to soy protein.) (But far from all.)

    If it is reflux, she should improve with more frequent smaller feedings. You can also check if the nipple hole is too large. Here is a post with a baby having similar issues: https://www.easybabylife.com/6-weeks-old-baby-throws-up.html

    For symptoms of milk allergy, check this post: https://www.easybabylife.com/lactose-intolerant-or-milk-allergy.html

    The fact that your baby screams when passing stools doesn’t have to be a serious issue. Many babies are uncomfortable during their first few months of living because their intestines are immature. And the formula is tougher on the baby’s tummy than breast milk. Green stools can also be normal – associated with iron-fortified formula, for example.

    There are also other conditions than feeding to fast, reflux, or milk allergy that could result in a baby vomiting. In this post, you can read about more uncommon reasons, such as pyloric stenosis (narrowing of the opening from the stomach to the intestines), and laryngomalacia (underdeveloped throat/larynx muscles). https://www.easybabylife.com/3-month-old-wont-stop-throwing-up.html

    If you are truly worried about your daughter’s vomiting and it doesn’t stop, and especially if she is not gaining weight, go see another doctor!

    Good luck! Paula

  10. Christy Atter

    My son is 14 months old and he started drinking while milk about 3 weeks ago and at first he was fi e but the last week he has been crying when he poops and it’s hard round poop and it’s a light yellow color he has thrown up a few times curdled milk, but not everytime he drinks it and he won’t eat anything the last 4 days not even cherrios. Could he be lactose intolerant or have a milk allergy? Please help

    1. Paula Dennholt

      Hi Christy,
      If the only change you’ve done to his diet is introducing milk then yes, it might very well be that he can’t deal with it. Does he get any kind of rashes too? I’d take away the milk completely for a while and see if it helps. Please post back and let us know!

  11. Nicholas

    My daughter is a 1.5 yrs old. She was on formula as an infant and at 8 month old we tried her on while milk and she would throw up. So we put her on 2% milk and she has been fine. Until about a week ago. She started throwing up. And we thought it was a cold or virus. So we took her to her pediatrician. They told us it was a cold but she was not running a fever. And she didn’t act sick. So we got to researching and realised that she was throwing up after drink milk. Well first we thought the milk was bad but we had just bought it a day before she started showing symptoms. Now my question. Is could she have a milk allergy after not having any symptoms or problems before? We know her stomach can’t handle the whole milk. But could she develop a milk allergy this late? She is fine eating cheese and yogurt and other dairy products but seems to be throwing up after drinking milk. She has also been having round hard rabbit stools. Any help would be appreciated.

  12. Johnny

    My 4 month has been on formula since she has been about 10 weeks old – basically since going back to work. She never had an issue w/ formula before, but recently got a stomach virus which caused green, frothy diarrhea w/ white curds in poop. It has been about 2 weeks since and her bowels have not gotten better. She still has mucus on/off, poop is yellow to green in color and has the white curds in it several times a day. Her stool has been tested for everything and all is negative – which is good but I still have no answers. She loves her food and has no signs of discomfort after eating. She drinks 6 oz at a time, could she be just digesting too fast because of the large volume of milk she drinks? I’m worried that she has an allergy or intolerance due to diarrhea, mucus and white curds all on/off with her bowel movements. Anybody have any advice?

    1. Paula Dennholt

      Hi Johnny,
      Sometimes young children become lactose intolerant for a little while after a stomach bug. The symptoms can be as you describe. You can try to exclude lactose from her diet for a while and see if things improve. Also give her a probiotic – several studies have shown babies’ diarrhea to last shorter if given probiotics. They often come in caplets and you can empty the caplet into any cold food or beverage. (Not in hot formula, but in humid, for example.)

      Do keep a short diary of her bowel movements and make sure to take her back to the doctors if she shows any sign of illness, dehydration or weakness,

      You say she has been tested for everything, so most likely it just takes time for her stomach to get well, but she is young, so don’t hesitate to take her back to the doctors if you are at all worried.

      Good luck and let me kow about her progress. :-)

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