If your baby fell off the bed, it’s very important to know how to assess possible injuries and how to act. We explain these questions and talk about precautions.
It might feel like we are the worst parents ever when something bad happens to our babies. If your baby feel off the bed, you should know that in most cases, the baby is just fine. But, of course, especially if your baby fell and hit their head on hardwood floor, there is a risk of serious injury.
This article started as cry for help from a worried mom after her baby fell off the bed. After the reply here and walk-through of all the warning signs that something is wrong and how to act, the comments started to come in.
So many parents have experienced this situation and most feel bad and worried. So, this post has transformed from simply being advised on what do to if your baby has fallen to becoming a support community with lots of comments from parents in similar situations. If you want to share too, scroll down to the very bottom of the post.
Here is the original call for help:
My Baby Fell Off The Bed – Please Help!
My baby fell off the bed on her head today while I was in the restroom. Do I have to worry about anything? Like are there any particular warning signs that I should be looking for?
I am really worried that my baby is injured somehow.
Warning Signs And What To Do When A Baby Falls and Hits the Head
Babies are very prone to falling especially when they are very mobile on the bed. A lot of times, they end up falling from the bed when we turn our attention to other things. But it is not always a cause for worry for parents when our babies hit their heads while falling.
Most of the time, they are just fine. They may cry since they get startled because of the fall or someone suddenly shouted when they fell. Sometimes, they don’t feel anything at all and just crawl or rollover. But sometimes, they end up with for example a concussion, a skull fracture, brain damage, or blood vessels that are teared.
First, let us identify red flags that we should look out for as parents when this happens:
- A bump, dent, or any malformation found on the head after the fall
- A wound that is bleeding non-stop
- Vomiting more than once after the fall (3 episodes of vomiting in 1 hour)
- Unusually drowsy or inactivity
- Difficult to awaken
- Loss of consciousness right after the fall
- Bleeding from ears or nose
- Irregular breathing
- Irritable than usual and incessant crying
When one of these warning signs is present or manifested within 12-24 hours after the fall, call the ambulance and your doctor right away.
These symptoms indicate a neurological disorder possibly caused by a neck injury, a skull fracture, or a brain injury. Management of these symptoms is of utmost importance.
How to Act After Your Baby Fell
Depending on the situation and the severity of the fall, your baby may be more or less severly injured. If there is a risk of severe injury, you should not move your child more than necessary to avoid further injury, but rather call the emergency services immediately.
If your baby is vomiting, turn them on their side carefully.
Bleeding should be stopped or at least managed until help arrives.
If your baby doesn’t seem to be severely injured, the best you can do is to comfort your baby. In such a case you can examine them after a while when they are calmer.
During the next 24 hours, you’ll have to watch for warning signs (above) of concussion and other injuries.
Call your health care provider and ask for advice on for example letting your baby sleep or waking them up in intervalls for the next 24 hours. Many babies will be a bit sleepy than usual after a fall.
This video walks you through different scenarios, injuries, and how to act as a parent if your baby has a serious fall. Make sure to watch it!
Prevention to Avoid Future Falls
Next, let’s talk about prevention. The one thing that comes to mind when we have babies in the house is how to babyproof it. This is, of course not olny needed to prevent falls, but prevent all kinds of serious accidents such as electrocution, fractures, or any other injuries.
For the prevention of falls, many things can help us do this:
- Putting of bed rails on all sides of the bed
- Installing gates on stairs and other rooms that are higher or elevated than the next room
- Keeping your furniture, especially those where you put your babies on like the bed and couch, low
- It is also safe to change your baby’s diaper on the floor if he moves around much
- Look for trip hazards on the floor (like wires or rugs) and remove them
- If you have mats on the floor or your baby’s pathway, better get anti-skid mats or rugs
- Always make sure that your floor is not wet, to avoid your walking babies from slipping
- Don’t leave your baby to sleep or play alone on an elevated area, such as your bed or sofa
These are just some of the preventive measures you can practice in your homes. But the best is still to always keep your eyes on your babies because accidents always happen.
Accidents happen. It is scary and heartbreaking and the best we can do is to work with prevention as much as we can. Nevertheless, many babies fall at some point. While babies can usually have quite hard hits on their heads and nothing happens, it is NOT worth taking any chances with head injuries. Call the doctor or visit the ER if at all in doubt.
I really hope your baby is fine.
P.S. Here are two excellent reference books for baby health issues and injuries:
- My Child Is Sick!: Expert Advice for Managing Common Illnesses and Injuries
- Caring for Your Baby and Young Child by The American Academy of Pediatrics
Read next About Injured Babies
My 6 month bay fell.
Just an hour ago, my son too fell off the bed. It felt terrible to let that happen to my little baby. We also surrounded him with pillows and etc. I was looking at the computer for a minute then I heard this loud sound. I worried like anything. He cried for a minute and then became normal. He seems to be behaving fine but needs to see for a day or two to see any different/abnormal behavior. Thanks all for sharing your feelings/experience.
4 months old baby fell off the bed
My almost 5 months baby fell off the bed this morning, she is so active I sometimes can’t keep up, I was woken up by a loud cry and after picking her up from the floor I felt like a stupid undeserving mom. She cried for a few minutes, I observed her, she seems ok, she’s eating. I’m at work and I can’t concentrate I think I should just go see her. Thanks for all your comments, I feel better
My baby fell down, but no pediatrician
My 6 month baby fell down from bed, about 3.5 feet high. I asked my mom if we could go to the pediatrician today. My mom said, there’s no doctor today because, today is a holiday. Doctors available today are on E.R.’s only. My baby vomited already twice and feels sleepy. I’m so worried. What should I do???
My 7 month old just fell off the bed and hit his head on the book case
I don’t know how he moved so fast from the middle of the bed to the edge, but he’s started scooting and I just knew this would happen sooner or later. Thankfully the bed is only about two feet off the ground, maybe less since it’s a futon platform bed. The bad part was that he fell on his bottom but hit his head on the edge of the bookcase when he teetered over. He has a little red bump and I was completely freaked out. But he only cried for less than a minute. Then I gave him some ice chips to sooth him and to teach him to be calmed by the ice chips and he was fine and back to normal within two minutes of falling. I would not take him to the emergency room unless he had displayed abnormal behavior. Emergency rooms are extremely hazardous and mostly a waste of time and money.
My 6 months baby again fall from bed
My 6 months baby twice fall from bed…but still there is no more significance from his side… but I’m worry about his health…
Should I consult any doctor about the same?
Because whenever I have consult with the doctor via call she said ….this is happens with all the parents.
Pls. suggest….what test should I go for?
Macky, Hope you took your baby to the Emergency for the baby to vomit is not a good sign 🙁 hope baby is ok now
My 7 month baby fell off the bed last night
by: Mommy of a sweet and cuddly baby girl
My daughter Kaylee is 7 months old and she fell asleep last night and I put her on my bed that comes up to my thigh and put pillows and blankets around her but away from her face, and I went to put some things up and then the next minute I know I heard a loud thump and a loud cry and when I went in my bedroom I seen her lying on my floor and my baby girl head underneath our bed frame and she was caught between our wall and our bed frame. and my hubby is an Emt so he checked her out and he said everything was fine, but then all day she was spitting up and last night she didn’t sleep good, so I called up to our hospital and talked to them and they said to keep an eye on her and make sure there was nothing abnormal. But she seem to be doing well and better, I just think she has a really bad headache now. So like the other mom said don’t trust any blankets or pillows cause once they start to roll around watch out.
fell off the bed 3 times…
Ever since my little one fell of the bed the first time I feel so miserable…since I can’t get over the first fall, and it keeps on happening. Am I crazy? Maybe. Why would I on earth leave her on 2 feet bed by herself? Funny thing is we all know the consequences but we just let it go…I did take her to doctor when she falls, doc says, oh, she is just fine. But I’m concern about her future…don’t these falls to affect her letter in life? That’s my biggest concern…she is doing fine now, it’s just I’m really concern…gosh, I hate myself so much of being a lousy mom…sometimes I wish I was never being mom…I hate myself so much…
my 15 month old daughter fell off the bed
It was so miserable…but reading all the messages in this site has somewhat helped me to overcome such trauma
my 3 month old fell off my bed
Last night my baby was fussy so I let him sleep in between me and my husband. Well ever since being pregnant my arms and legs go numb when I sleep on one side too long so when I roll over, I rolled him over to the other side with me. Well I hear this “thump” and then loud cries and so I jumped out of bed to find my baby boy laying on his stomach with his hands covering his face. My heart almost jumped out of my chest but when
I picked him up he instantly stopped crying and was acting fine. I checked his arms and legs and his face for any signs of broken bones or bruising which didn’t seem to bother him and checked his eyes to make sure he was still following me from side to side. He ate a bottle and went right back to sleep and was fine when we woke up this morning =) cooing and laughing at me when I would talk to him. I’m still going to monitor him and make sure there is no vomiting or difference in how he is acting but other than that, he seems fine!!! It definitely scares you to death and you feel like a horrible mom but it happens to a lot of people.
Can’t get over feeling like the worst mom ever when my 6th month old daughter fell off the bed.
HI there. I have a 6 month old daughter. Two nights ago I fell asleep while breastfeeding my daughter. She normally falls asleep with me but this time she didn’t. Next thing I know my baby is screaming bloody murder and I look and realize she’s not next to me but on the floor underneath her crib. Her crib was right next to the bed so I don’t know how she fell between the bed and crib. I don’t know what she hit. I checked everything and didn’t see any bumps bruises or red spots. I keep checking her every couple of hrs and am so heartbroken that I let this happen.
I feel so stupid and feel like I am such a horrible mom. I don’t know what to do it has me feeling so low and depressed. How could I fall asleep and not hear my baby awake about to roll off the bed. I feel like a failure. She seems fine but I’m going to make a doctors appt bc I can’t let go that there might be something wrong. I just feel awful and all I do is cry and constantly hold my baby telling her how sorry I am and that I don’t know what I would do if anything happened to her. Am I bad mom for not waking up? Shouldn’t of I hear her. I work full time nights so I can be home during the day with her. I should have heard her and I can’t forgive myself. I don’t know what to do. Any advice? All I have been doing is crying and feeling like I’m the worst mom ever!
my baby of 6 mothes fell of my bed it not her first time what to do
Hi, my baby fell today like 3 hours ago she has before with this it her 3 time am not a bad mother is that she moves to quick and everything she see she wants to get…. am worrying thats something bad may happen to her she seems okay and the times she has fallen from my bad she cry for a min.. and go backs to normal I always feel bad cus it hurts me she only 5 months Should I be concerned?
6 month old fell off my bed
My 6 month old fell off the couch once when he was 5 months old while my husband was preoccupied with something else and now yesterday he fell off of our bed…about 4 feet! He was surrounded by pillows but rolled right over them! I cannot forgive myself. He cried for a minute and then was smiling, cooing, and playing. No bumps or bruises, thank god! I am never going to be able to forgive myself! I’m glad I’m not the only mom this has happened to!
It happend to me to
I can’t express how relieved I am to have found this site!!! My daughter (who’s 8 months old today) rolled off the bed for the first time a few days ago, I’m still so upset about it – I’m furious with myself as it was all my fault, I know she can roll, but we both fell asleep together – thank goodness she is fine!!! – But it doesn’t stop me from feeling a terrible Mummy :-(… I will never ever let it happen again!! I felt so ashamed 🙁 XX
5 month old baby
by: my mistake
My daughter who was lying down on the floor playing. I made her sit upright and before I could life her she slipped and fell down. She was crying for about 5 minutes. I feel terrible. And worse. She is playing no but still I feel really sad and I saw all these comments I feel little better.
My 7 month old fell off the bed
Hello all, I’m so grateful I’ve found this site, just this morning my son fell in my bed, he was sleeping with me coz he was crying in his crib so I transfer him in my bed, then we all fell asleep and the next thing happen I just heard and LOUD BANG, just like the other moms says, OBSERVE the baby, I will observe my son. Thanks guys!
7 month old
I too have suffered from baby boy falling off of the bed just this morning. I can’t observe him because he is at the babysitters but I did tell her what happened and told her to watch him. I hope that is enough. Should I call her and make sure nothing is wrong?
7 month old baby girl fell down
My baby girl fell down yesterday night suddenly from bed in head down position. I felt very bad. She cried for two mins then become normal. Her lips become injured. She became normal.
BABY FALLING OFF BED AT 5 MONTHS
I am so thankful for this comment page. My daughter, who is 5 months old, scooted off the bed this afternoon, landed face first (from what we can tell) onto Berber carpet. She immediately stopped crying, starting smiling, laughing, etc. We checked her eyes with a flashlight and she responded perfectly.
Being a first time mother however, I was so grateful to have my husband’s mother there to know what to do. My daughter then was very active all afternoon. Then I thought I noticed a slight dent in her head, but couldn’t tell if it was her soft spot that I had just never paid attention to. I was so frazzled that I couldn’t help but call the pediatrician again (I called after she fell) to make sure.
Because I wasn’t clear on whether it was new or not (there was no bruise, scratch or redness), she suggested taking her to the Emergency room just to be sure. Then in the madness of it all, while at the Emergency room, after seeing three nurses who all said she was perfectly fine – my husband and I couldn’t wait anymore – our nerves were on edge for different reasons. Mainly, the baby was so tired and hadn’t taken two of her normal afternoon naps (we were told not to let her go to sleep until as late as possible) and it was almost passed that time too. I hadn’t eaten all day – I was a mess. So we left. Reason being that the whole time she was laughing, smiling, happy, etc., etc. – just tired towards the end.
When we left I felt utterly guilty and started crying the whole way home. She fell asleep on the way home, woke up when we got home, interacted some more – another bottle feeding and off to sleep. I’ve been holding her hand for two hours now and she’s making normal movements and breathing fine. I thought I was the worst mother on earth until I read this page. Thank you for posting. I am taking her to the Pediatrician Monday just to get final closure on the whole thing. But I just needed this assurance and no one can give that to you – but this certainly helped so much.
Worst Mom Ever
I feel like the worst mom here, I had my 6 month old son in his Bumbo seat on the counter (about 4-4.5 feet) I normally have him here and he’ll try and move and get out of it he’ll ever try and throw himself back in his seat and the seat won’t move, so I didn’t have a problem leaving him on the counter while I was 2 feet away making his bowl of cereal. I was measuring out the milk so my eyes were off him for just a few seconds and next thing I hear is a thud. I see him on the floor with the seat next to him, I rush over and pick him up, he cried for what seemed like forever, I felt so bad and I kept saying I’m sorry I’m sorry and was trying not to cry with him.
Well, what seemed to be about 10-15 minutes now that I look back at it my boyfriend and I took him to the ER, he was seen by I think 3 doctors and had to explain what happened I felt so bad and was crying all I can see this thinking is I’m a bad mom and their going to take my beautiful son away from me, he is fine, I just need to watch for dilated eyes, vomiting, and wake him ever few hours for 48hr and then go back to a normal routine.
I still worry that something is wrong as he’s a baby and can’t say what hurts or what doesn’t, but the doctors did say he was ok and it was good to bring him in.
I still feel bad about the fall and I’m just beating myself up over it, never leave him alone in it again especial if it is on a raised surface. I’m still worried I’m going to have CPS (Child Protective Services) at my door. But he is safe and still has a checkup with his primary at the end of this week, not because of the fall but for his 6 month appointment, I will let her know what happened so she can do an extra look over at him. Other than that always be on the safe side and take your baby to the ER, I know it’s scary and just the thought of what they may think of you is not going to be as bad as if you didn’t take your baby in.
OMG my 6 month old fell off the bed!
OMG OMG I’m the worst mom ever to have let this happen. I feel terrible! I was lying down on the bed feeding her and I fell asleep. Next thing I know, I woke up by a big thump followed by crying. I jumped up and my heart was pounding to find her on the floor. The good thing is that it’s carpet however, we have a wooden bed frame that sticks out and the bed is close to the wall where there’s a heater. So she fell in between the bed frame and heater that’s attached to the wall on the ground. I had put a pillow on the edge of the bed but she managed to bypass it. I can’t believe I underestimated her abilities. I quickly picked her up and held her really close to me and kept apologizing to her. We checked for injuries and found a red mark on her forehead which is probably from either the heater or the bed frame. She didn’t cry for long after the fall and seems to be acting ok but I’m sooo worried. I really hope she’s ok and nothing inside her is damaged. She played with her toys a little bit and I fed her again and now she’s asleep on my lap. Oh I’m just a horrible mother. I will never be able to forgive myself for this one… :'(
11 month old fell off the bed
I feel terrible!!! My 11 month old baby boy feel off the bed while I left him for just a few minutes while I went to make his bottle. He was already fussy because he was sleepy. I ran quickly to his side when I heard a loud bang followed by inconsolable crying. I quickly picked him up and apologized. I cried with him and I feel so guilty. He stopped crying and fell asleep soon after he finished his bottle. I called his pediatrician and she advised me to keep him awake and not let him sleep for a few hours. I woke him up and observed his behavior. He’s acting normal and smiling and playing. No bruises or head bumps. Never again will I leave him unattended.
My 7month baby fell
my baby fell off the couch flat on her face when I was talking to someone she started to cry so I gave her a pacifier and now she’s asleep is she ok
Our Princess took a fall from the evil bed!
Our 8mo. old Princess is just the cutest lil’ person you’ve ever seen & this morning her perfect lil’ face met the side of our dresser while plunging off our bed. She woke up before us & made a quiet attempt to reach for her bottle on top of the dresser she took a tumble & hit her head in two different places including the bridge of her nose where a lil’ piece of her perfect nose was cut. I screamed frantically hoping I wasn’t really awake yet as my husband came running to her rescue. She cried for a few minutes & like all the other tough babies in these commentaries she was fine but of course her parents are not. Her smiles at least give us reassurance that God made babies tougher than their parents, she’s crawling, standing & eating as normal I hope this brings comfort to other parents, even if it just helps a little.
7 month old baby fell about 3 feet high
I lull my brother’s baby to sleep in her swing and after a while, he slept soundly. I left her in the room for a while so I can cook for supper when suddenly I heard a baby cry coming from the room. I felt so terrified when I saw her with her tummy on the floor. I can’t forgive myself. I don’t exactly know if she hit her head or what but she had a reddened area in her left cheek that eventually gone after a while.
She returned to her normal activity and began playing again. But 12 hours later, she vomited small amount of milk. She has a clear fluid from nose and sneezing. Help please… Her parents have flu and I don’t exactly know if that liquid is due to colds or CSF (I may exaggerate) but to be cautious only. =(
Yes worry a lot. Worry that he is not damaged, don`t let him go to sleep straight away. Watch for sleepiness and droopiness.
But mostly worry that if the Child Protection Services get hold of the story, they will take your baby into foster care. Get you criminalized for neglect and get you 10 years in jail. And your baby adopted by complete strangers… So especially worry and make sure it never happens again. Because the fascist state is watching us. The CPS get loads of money for adoptions and want to break up families, if they break families they break societies.
What happened to you and your child? From your comment, it seems like you’ve gone through a really bad experience. Did you lose your child?
I would say in 99.9% of all cases a parent does not lose a child because the baby fell. It must have been some special circumstances. If you want to share, please go ahead.
my 7 mnth old baby fell off the cot 🙁
Today as I had turned my back just to take my car keys and closing the wardrobe, I saw in the mirror my 7 month old daughter rolling from the bed… I had lesser than a fraction of a second to hold her, couldn’t hold her back 🙁
I am feeling so so so terribly guilty that I am unable to eat or drink anything.. This is the first time I have let this happen and have made sure that henceforth I’ll take all the safety measures to keep my little angel safe from any such accidents.
my PJD fell from bed too
My son fell from bed yesterday too, rang NHS direct then took him to A&E spent 2 hours in A&E and they give him the all clear after checking his eyes, ears and skull. He was giggling and laughing at the doctors in A&E. Funny really a friend of mine told me that this happened to her and I thought to myself oh she’s a bad mom but now it has happened to me I realize what a common incident it is and that it happens quite a lot. So feeling a lot less bad now but still can’t help but worry and keep rerunning the incident through my mind even did a demonstration to show my husband what happened and even though I didn’t hit the carpet floor it still hurt..
Are babies’ skulls softer and does it hurt them less than adults as adults skulls are harder and they feel more pain as I believe babies are more flexible and more bouncy due to their developing bones. Any opinion on this please…
My baby daughter fell off my bed too!
I feel soooo bad. I heard this big puff followed by her cry. I ran sliding through the floor almost falling to find her on the floor laying on her back. I freaked out and worried about a concussion. After making a quick search, I realized it wasn’t that bad because she acted just fine right after it. I made sure I observed her for a while. Ouf! Motherhood is challenging. She won’t smell my bed again, that’s for sure. God bless her and all the babies of the world.
My 8 mo. old princess fell off the bed!
My darling girl and I had been napping, when I decided to get up and pick up the house a little. I left her with mountains of pillows on both sides of the bed and kept the house quiet to hear when she woke up (she normally wakes up crying). Five minutes later, I hear a loud THUMP followed by intense cries and MY HEART DROPPED. I ran to the room to find her on the floor with her head down. In the midst of my panic, I managed to console her and inspect her head and body. Once the crying stopped and she went back to acting like normal herself, I BEGAN TO SOB. I felt like such a terrible mother. The person who should protect her the most, let her down so bad… The guilt didn’t allow me to sleep and has caused uncontrollable crying and headaches.
my baby 4 months fell
My darling baby fell from the bed just few hours ago. She was acting normal just 5 min after it had happened, but I feel so bad that I am holding her on my arms since…
Hope she will be ok…
8 month baby fell off from the couch
by: first time Mom
My 8 month baby fell off from the sofa and hit his head onto the coffee table and landed straight to the floor. He was crying for 2 min. Now he is happy and back to normal. Many parents I know had similar experience but I thought I would be more alert. I guess this can happen to any parent raising babies.
Fell off bed
by: We all make mistakes
My girl was hanging out with me on the bed while I was replying to an email on my laptop, and in just a few seconds, she creeped to the other side and fell off the bed. I screamed like I never screamed before and my husband came running. She had little red marks on the right side of her face, like the bruises she had when she was born, and I just cried, felt guilty, apologized, and held her. Finally, I gave her to my husband because my panic was freaking her out more than the fall itself. I went into the spare bedroom and spent some time by myself.
Previously, if someone let their baby fall off the bed I would have called them negligent, uncaring parents. But I realize now, if you have a baby, this can happen to you. It takes only a second with a mobile baby. They cover a lot of ground with those rolls. Just remember, we’re all loving moms, but we’re not gods. We do things wrong. We never mean to hurt our babies. We take care of them 24 hours a day. And when they do fall (even when it’s our fault if you feel the need to place blame) they still want us first to make them feel better. What is the alternative? They are going to hurt themselves, no matter what. My husband crawled out of his crib as a baby and fell constantly. But there was nothing else his mother could do. She couldn’t let him roam free throughout the house at night.
If we keep thinking of ourselves as bad mothers, etc., it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. The one mother that said that these falls are harder on us than they are on the babies is RIGHT. MY girl was ready to do it again today… she is fine. Of course if there is bleeding or the baby is lethargic, you have to call the advice nurse. But even if baby is hurt, you have to realize that you would never hurt that baby.
They’re babies. They have a lot to learn, and we’re here to guide them, protect them, and comfort them when they need us. Beating yourself up constantly about things like this will not help baby, and it definitely won’t help you. To your baby, you will always be the best mother in the world. Remember that.
All this said, if your baby keeps falling off the bed like the one mother said, 5 times a month and the grandma that complained, you need to fix that or rearrange the bed so it stops happening. Take fascinating object out of baby’s sight if she can’t help but go for them. I’m no doctor but repeated head traumas are not ok.
my 6 months old baby
My 6 months old baby fell down to the bed last night. I was really scared and I was crying feeling so guilty that my husband and I were both there in just a little glimpse of an eye or baby boy fell down. Thank God. After he cried for a minute he back to his normal routine. Very much active a happy baby. I think it’s really a part of growing up. But I hope it will not happens any more. I will try my best to be more careful and very much careful to him.
Fell off bed. Worried. Upset of myself..
My baby boy just fell off the bed. Landing head first. He cried for about a min or so. Then took him a bath and he was being his normal self. Is there anything I should be worried about? I don’t want nothing to happen to him in the future. He only got a small bruised in his left eye.
My 7month old has already fallen off my bed 4 times, how do I know if she will be ok, especially when she falls in her father care?
4 month old
Hi, the worst day ever
I was getting ready to put my 4 month old baby to sleep upstairs until she dropped her paci. So I grabbed the paci and held my baby headed down stairs to the kitchen to rinse it . Unfortunately in our way I slipped and missed the last step and here goes my precious baby dropped on the carpet. My heart dropped and I didn’t know what to do. I wanted to die right and then. I felt like a horrible mom. I just looked at her and screamed before I picked her up She looked at me seemed ok but got startled by my scream and screamed and cried for a good two min. Luckily her grand mom’s and dad took over. I was a mess they were comforting me I don’t know how I can never forgive myself. I am monitoring her. Now she is her normal self but I am a total wreck.
God is watching over our babies.
My 9 mo.olf baby fell for the second time
My baby fell from bed 2 months ago, she was 7 month-old, I took her to the nearest clinic, the doctor says she’s fine and I just need to observe her. And don’t let it happen again. But just last week she fell from a 3-feet tall bed again! I was terrible, my heart sank, I’m a lousy mom coz I let it happen again. And now I am worried about her condition. No one knows this, except me and my auntie, not even my husband.
Just yesterday-6 days after she fell from bed she vomited. I don’t know if this is just the symptoms of teething, because her teeth are erupting on the upper incisor. Or could this be the effect of falling from bed for the second time? I hope and pray that this is just her teeth erupting. Please give me advice to those who experience this. I’m a first timer mom. And too worried for my baby.
My baby fell down from bed
My baby fell before an hour from bed I was so worried he cried for just 10-15 min but I feel very guilty I cried very much so I search I got all these opinion so feel little relax but even I am worried he is acting normal but have he any problem which I can’t see now.. Brain related means memory n related??? No bleeding or vomiting plz share your opinion about this I will be thankful!!!!!!!!1
Mother in law would not let me touch my baby
So, this was the second time that the baby fell from my bed. I was horrified. The first time, she had barely learned to roll and was sleeping in bed with me. And I awoke to a THUD and saw my darling crying face down on the floor. My husband came crashing through the door with my mother-in-law soon to follow. I grabbed my baby and comforted her and received the harshest criticism from my husband calling me a bad mother and to never put her on the bed again.
However, the 2nd time she fell…husband and I were both watching the baby and he says, “It’s so hot, I’m going to turn on the AC.” And as he is leaving out the door, I step away to go to the closet for a second when I hear a THUD and precious darling had fallen again. This time around my husband takes the baby and gives her to his mom and does not let me touch her, even when the baby was crying to be comforted by me. My baby kept reaching for me but mother-in-law would not let me touch her. Mother-in-law yanked her away from me and tore my hands away from her when I tried to hold her, saying, “You are not fit to be a mother. Her falling once could happen to anyone, but her falling a 2nd time forfeits you from this child. You should be on your knees apologizing to me for dropping her.”
I was so outraged and on the verge of hysteria that my mother-in-law would not even let me touch my 6 month old child, let alone think that I owe her an apology. My baby falling was more traumatic on me than anyone, how dare she keep my child away from me?? Is that fair? My husband could have at least warned me to watch the baby when he was stepping away. We were both stepping away at the same time. How come the blame falls on me!
And there stood my husband next to my mother-in-law, who was holding my crying child and me on the other side, crying, and facing them.
To mom with the mother-in-law
by: Paula (Easy Baby Life)
What a horrible experience you must have had with your baby falling for the second time and then being dismissed as an unfit mother when it happened! I really feel sorry for you!
Unless you and your mother-in-law already have a poor relationship, my guess is that her reaction was due to shock. People can do the weirdest, most unappropriated things when scared and upset.
When things have calmed down a bit, try to talk to your husband about it, telling him how sad and traumatic the event was for you. If you don’t blame him, it is more likely that he will understand your side of it. Then maybe he can help you talk to his mother; either he does it or you or the two of you together.
I really hope the three of you manage to talk about the situation, so that it won’t create negativity going forward.
I’m feeling like the worst mom in the universe
it happened today we were sleeping and next thing I know I hear a loud thud followed by a shaking of the bed and a loud cry I immediately woke up and saw my son in the ground crying nonstop I got him and started talking to him but I’m worried because I don’t remember if he fell in top of my laptop or if he hit his head on the swing there both next the bed since he was on his swing last night and I was to tiered to put the laptop away the previous night. I don’t know what to do I’m all shaken up and fell terrible
WORST DAY OF MY LIFE
I’m relieved to see I’m not the only one this happened to. My 3 MONTH old was laying on his boppy pillow on the couch, I only walked away to my kitchen for a few seconds. As I was watching him, he started kicking and moving a lot and then I saw him roll off my 2ft couch on to a rug with hard tile underneath it and land on his face. I feel so terrible I couldn’t catch him in time.
He cried for a couple mins, and then acted back to normal, but I still immediately took him to the doctor, the doctor checked his pupils, and made sure no vomiting, and then lifted him in the air to make sure he kicked his legs (he said if he didn’t move his legs while in the air could be a sign of concussion). Everything was just fine.
Thank you god, and I do believe angels or spirits watch over him all the time.
fall the third time !!!
When my baby was in her 3rdmonth she fell on our bed. It’s my fault, I was doing her milk then I put her in the middle on our bed. Then the 2nd time, she rolled down when I was asleep. I guess she was on her 4thmonth – the 3rd time from her stroller. I didn’t notice that the side pillow was not fixed so she fell down again, but she acted as normal as usual to herself. Should I go for an x-ray just to be secure? Or will take a year if the baby have a bad effect or unusual affect during those falling months of her. HMMMMM IM SO GUILT I GUESS IM NOT THAT GOOD MOTHER AFTER ALL. Im just a teenage mom =’C
10 month old fell from the bed
My 10 month old fell off the bed today and I was a wreck. I literally just walked off to fix his blanket and when I turned around I saw him falling but couldn’t catch him. My heart stopped when I saw and heard his head hit the floor, I couldn’t stop screaming. I picked him up and took him outside to calm him down and he seemed fine after that. I waited half hr. before putting him down for a nap though and he’s been good throughout the day. He’s crying in his sleep and I can’t help but worry if it had anything to do with the fall. I kept hugging him, crying and apologizing. I feel like the worst mom in the world, it’s never happened before or to my other child. I guess you really do need eyes behind your head, and there are definitely angels watching over our babies. I’m so relieved to have read the other stories on here, makes me feel better to see that it does happen sometimes. I still feel so guilty though.
My 5 month old fell off from bed
@VJ, my son fell from bed yesterday, though he was ok within few mins I still went to pediatrician. He has asked me to observe for 24hrs, but my son is ok now. I am still worried. I will be ok only after this observation time ends.
I hope baby’s ok…fingers crossed!!
Guilty Parent Syndrome from Baby falling
This Mama had the same thing happen. We let him play with his toys on the bed and both I and his daddy were in the room getting ready when our 7 month old stood up and climbed right over the extra-long extra wide queen sized bedrails. He fell right on his back (according to daddy) I was standing in front of his change table and he landed right by my feet. I was a wreck just screaming we have to get him checked. We saw the ped a few minutes ago and now I am watching him sleep for his regular nap. I feel like waking him to make sure he is okay…but I will just sit here and stare. I was told to just make sure he has normal sleep patterns no vomit and is acting normal. I can’t believe that happened since we even use the change table strap. I won’t forgive myself :(
My baby did too.
My six month old just fell off the bed yesterday. I am submitting my post because this website helped a lot with my fear and guilt. My son was sleeping on my bed and I stepped out for two seconds. I heard a big thud and a cry that I had never heard before. I rushed him to our family doctor and she said that everything was fine. I later took him home and noticed that his eye was swelling a bit. I rushed him to the hospital where they took good care of him and told me again that everything was fine. My bed is almost three feet off the ground and he landed on hardwood flooring. They said that babies are made of tough stuff. My mom said it best, ” You don’t know the true meaning of guilt until you have a baby.”.
I think I’d enemy 4 my little 6mnths angel puthiya
Just 8 hours back I did a worst act in my life. When my baby cried and waked up I took from her bed and held her with my left harm went to prepare her food in kitchen. Suddenly she rolled and (still I m not able to realize how I lost my grip on her) fell on her back fully inside the kitchen sink which has a stainless steel kadaiwith water. I don’t know what has happen for a moment. She sacred for a while and fully wet with water in washing sink. I cried and hits my head on doors as I itself made her fall down. I examined her well, no bumps but small bleed clot like dot on her back neck. The bad thing is already for d past five days she is having 99 to 100 degree fever. She cried for some time looking at me and after 15minutes I gave her food. She eats well, plays and responds to my action. No vomits or guidyness. She feels sleepy after 1 1/2 hour and I made her to sleep. In order to monitor, I wakes her at night, she wakes ups well and smiles at me. After my feeding again goes asleep. I planned to go to doctor tomorrow and decided to take CT scan for brain for my satisfaction and future safety. Through this I like to ask sorry 2 my daughter 4 my bad thing. I pray 2 god to keep my child healthy and good. so friends plz, reply me wat to do to subside my fear, guilty and panic.
Memory loss from falling off bed?
About a week ago, while our son was “watching” her, our 8 month old granddaughter rolled off their high bed and fell onto a very hard wood over concrete floor. He found her face down crying. There seemed to be no after effects except this past Saturday she was her normal self, but Monday extremely whiny and tired while my wife watched her – and, and this is a BIG and, she does not seem to recognize me anymore. I used to be greeted with smiles and the “full body smile” – arms and legs flailing – but now it is as though I am a total stranger. She seems ok with my wife who watches her 3 days a week, but I get nothing but a blank, or worse, almost apprehensive look. I am worried something happened to her in the fall, but afraid to say anything to my son – he feels guilty enough already. Any thoughts?
I feel guilty. I have a 8month old baby. She’s fallen already 2 times out of my bed and once out of my mom’s bed. On all 3 falls it sounded like she could be hurting, but not all 3 she cries for a min and once we put her on the floor she starts playing with her toys. But tonight, on her 3rd fall, I noticed she didn’t want to let go of me when I picked her up from the floor. Does that mean there’s something going on with her.. She played for a while.. She ate 4 ounces of milk and now she’s sleeping… What should I do????
And as u can see I’m a very irresponsible and bad 1st time mother….
Guilty – Andrea
No scolding Andrea but you REALLY have to be more careful. Once? Happens to everyone, but three times? You have to watch after ANY fall for signs of concussion or other injury, and perhaps see your pediatrician, but if these three times have been relatively close together you should definitely get her checked out – like football players with multiple concussions – babies with multiple falls and blows to the head can be a very bad thing. Stop wondering and hitting message boards – take her to an ER or your pediatrician immediately!
Today my 5 month baby fell off the bed while I was making a bottle, the bed is pretty high from the ground. When I saw him on the floor I started to cry I was so scared. But he wasn’t crying that much until I picked him up and started babying him and saying sorry. I feel like im a bad mom, I feel terrible and can’t get it off my mind. I’m still trying to figure out how he was on one side of the bed and ended up on the other side of the floor. He is acting normal like nothing happened. And my mother in law said my husband fell off the bed many times n he was always fine. I thank his guardian angels for making him ok.
Baby Fell from being propped on the bed
Hi, I too feel horrible. I’ve always heard that it is quite common for babies to fall or roll off the bed, but I didn’t expect it to happen to my baby. It did today, and I feel so bad. I keep replaying the scene over and over again in my head. I was trying to get ready quickly to get out of the house with my baby to take her to the zoo. She is 3 1/2 months old and was crying when I laid her on her back, so I propped her up against a pillow on the bed so she would stop crying. I turned my back for a few seconds to get a shirt out of my dresser, literally 2 feet away from where my baby was, and the next thing I hear is my baby’s scream after a thump.
She toppled over and rolled off the bed onto the carpeted floor. I picked her up immediately, hugging and apologizing to her, trying not to cry or get to upset myself so as not to upset her more. As soon as she stopped screaming and crying about 5-10 minutes later, I called the nurse at her pediatrician’s office. She assured me that it happens often, that of course you’ll feel like a horrible mother, but you ARE NOT A HORRIBLE MOTHER! I have to keep telling myself that because I feel so bad.
Like others have said here it is often more difficult on the parent than on the baby. No bumps, scratches or bruises on my little one. I’m going to start putting her on the floor, or strapped in to one of her seats from now on. I cannot let this happen again, not only for her sake, but for my sanity. I’m exhausted now from the stress of what happened this morning, but I don’t want to go to sleep…I just want to keep checking in on her. The nurse said to keep an eye on her and to look for anything that seems different, but so far there is nothing. She’s her normal, cute, smiley self.
My advice to those of you this has happened to; remain calm and don’t be too hard on yourself. The power of your thought is amazing. If you get down on yourself, for this ACCIDENT it may lead to other accidents, who knows. Please be strong for you and your baby. Remind yourself of all the great things you do for her/him, and think of all the things that make your baby amazing. Of course…do all of this after you assess your baby naked and have considered at least calling your doctor or nurse hotline. Calling at first for me seemed like admitting that I am a bad mom, but I soon realized that a bad mom is one who knows there is something you can do, but refuse to do it. That’s not to say you have to call the nurse if your baby falls, but in general, I guess. Do everything you feel like you should, whether or not you want to for the benefit of your baby.
My good thoughts are being sent in the direction of any mother having to deal with this accident. Be strong!
Thank You moms
Today morning my little ones (7 months) fell from bed when I was in rest room. Immediately we took her to hospital my doc told she is normal but keep her under observation for 24 hrs for vomit. Actually she will vomit regularly after taking milk becoz of rolling over or sitting…today she vomited twice, but remaining is very normal…She is more active than before and playing a lot…sleeping naps also very normal. Now tell me friends whether I have to go doctor or not.
thank you all…I thank god also…
I’m so relieved after reading all you Mum’s comments. My 5month old girl fell off the bed this morning & it was really terrible seeing her lying on the floor. She cried for about 2mins & was back to normal.
I do really believe that there are angels all around. Thank God for having a watch over my little angel….
My son hit his head and is only 12 weeks old!!
My son is 12weeks old and as I was feeding him a bottle and his head rolled off my knee and hit the bed really hard. He cried straight away and was even holding his breath a bit but he do this when he cries sometimes. He seemed fine after about 10mins, chatting and smiling an stayed awake for about an 40mins after. He has now gone to sleep. I am just really worried especially as he is so small only 12weeks old. I know that I will not be able to go to sleep at all now I feel terrible! What should I do now, shall I leave him sleep? What are the signs that I should be looking out for?!!
HI after reading all the comments I no longer feel so awful.
My 6 and a half month old son fell off the bed about 30mins ago. He cried a little after but had his usual morning bottle and is playing quite happily on the floor with his toys. I checked for bruising and checked his limbs but all is ok. I will keep my eye on him for the next few days. Just so glad I’m not the only one. It was awful we always have morning cuddles before he has his bottle and I must have dozed back off for a few seconds next thing I hear was bang and my boy crying. I feel dreadful and keep saying to myself I’m a bad mum. But after reading all the comments I know now it’s a common thing. I won’t be taking my eyes off him from now on. I couldn’t bear to hear that cry again.
Thank you all
My 7 month old fell off the bed
I been reading all your comment and I don’t know if they make me feel better. I’m a second time mom and that never happened to my first one. What I can say I guess I wasn’t thinking. I should know better by now. We have a area rug, but he fell on the hardwood floor. As you see I still very upset, I just happened last night, I just waiting for today and see how he does today.
For the sweet grandma that wrote before, take baby to the Dr or tell your dear ones to do it, I think after many time of somebody falling or banging the head many time it could be very dangerous if not think about the people that practice boxing, many someday the baby can be know out forever. It just takes to be in a bad time and moment when lethal thing happen. I will be praying for that little baby and all the other ones too.
I’m still so sad about this situation, even if happen at all of us, that shouldn’t be the case, is way we are here to take care of them. I’m sorry I cannot help. But I guess is good to have this feelings it show that we care and also to remember never do it again.
And for the ones that sleep with baby on bed better to buy a crib or ask for one for free, they are way to fast and at night is impossible to keep track of those sweet little ones.
Last night my 8 month baby boy fell off the bed.
May be in dark he didn’t notice. We also don’t know when he woke up and fell off. He got little injury in mouth. His upper lip was broken and mouth filled with blood. We terrified but after 3-5 min he stopped crying. The wound is gone in 4 days.
My11 Month Baby Fell Off The Bed [SAKHI]
by: HARDEEP SINGH
MY BABY 11MONTH OLD AND FELL OFF THE BED 4-5 TIMES IN A MONTH IAM IN TENSION SO WHAT CAN IDO FOR IT MOTHER WAS HEARING SOUND [BLOW]AND CRYING VERY MUCH PL TELL WHAT STEP WE TAKEN
1month old baby accidentally bump her head
Pls advice… Anyone who can read this. I’m very worried. I have a 1month old baby, I accidentally bump her head on a wooden cabinet while I was carrying her. She had a red bump. She cried for only 2 mins I think. Then she fell asleep. After 10 mins, she cried and gave her milk. Is there anything that I should do? This happened a few minutes before im composing this… Please…
My sweetest baby fell down and bumped her head!
Just less than 1 hour ago my 8 months old sweetest princess fell down right.in front of my own eyes. She just learned how to crawl, and just learn to sit perfectly on her own, and I am just so proud of her. In a family gathering, she has her 2 cousins, slightly older than her, around. So the mums put them side by side and started acting like paparazzi. She fell to the floor, in a split second in the middle of the photo shoot, and I just felt like a big idiot… I wanted to die right there and then…
She cried really hard, and I breastfed her, compress the forehead with ice pack. I feel like I want to die… However. Now she is normal…smiling and eating her porridge… But I am scarred forever… I promised to be extra careful in the future.
My 8 month old fell down the bed while I was looking for her night dress… I usually take extra care to make sure she doesn’t fall off the bed by distracting her with the toys she likes the most, but today I didn’t even think of them… it was my fault that she fell down… but when I thought about why I didn’t take the usual precautions, I realized I was sleep deprived for the past few days due to travel and her night wakings… I feel like a bad mommy for not taking care of her and sleeping while she took her afternoon nap today but spent some time for myself… hoping that she is alright…
what happens to a 8 month old baby falls and hit head falls to sleep then wake up fine?
What happens to an 8 month old baby falls and hit head falls to sleep then wake up fine? What should I do? Is he going to be ok?
I have one of the tommee tippee nappy disposal units in my baby’s room, after emptying it an hour ago, I brought it back up. As where I keep it was cluttered, I put it on a chair next to my little boy’s cot. When the space was cleared, I picked it up and the lid fell off, bounced off the mattress onto my baby’s head. He cried for a few minutes, but stayed alert and is now giggling in his sleep.
I have experience with accidents as I’m a HCA but nothing with children as such. Do you think he’ll be ok? He’s only 6 weeks 5 days old
7 month old fell off my bed……
This morning, my 7 month old baby girl fell off our bed. Her dad turned around to grab a diaper and I was putting up clothes when all of a sudden I heard a bang! And there was my little girl laying flat on her back.. Scared the mess outta me. He picked her up. Looked her over. She cried for a couple min.. In fact I believe I cried longer than she did. I loved on her and told her how sorry I was. I still feel awful. After we both calmed down I put her in her walker and off she went like nothing ever happened. She’s been laughing, smiling, eating, and saying dadadada..lol thank God she seems to be ok.im still going to be up all night checking on her I know.. Please Lord continue to watch over our babies. I pray she is ok.
baby fall from stairs
My brother’s daughter fall from 22 stairs. My mother and her mother run towards her.MY brother was become unconscious and fall. I was sleeping and when I hair the sound of crying of my mother and of my brother’s daughter I suddenly wake up I run to the stairs when I see the last stair there was blood. In one minute they go to the doctor. Doctor say’s nothing to worry. The damage is only on lips. But I am still worried. She is just 1 year old.
My 3 month old baby falls off bed
by: Guilt forever?
He just turned 3 months, and yesterday I jolted out of bed and screamed because I was awaken by a thump and a loud cry. I usually always put pillows on the side of him and place him in the middle of the bed once my husband leaves for work in the morning. We have a king sized bed. But I was so tired and for some reason laid him back on the other side of me and his head wasn’t angled in the direction I usually lay him. I can’t get the image of him laying head first on the floor with his little feet over his body crying. It was only a split second and I sprang up and scooped him up and he immediately stopped crying and was smiling at me a few seconds later. He seems to be completely normal but I just feel so horrible. No bumps or vomiting or anything. Reading these comments makes me feel better. I didn’t even tell my husband bec I don’t want him to think I’m a bad mother. I keep playing it over and over in my head and wonder if that horrible feeling and image will stay with me forever?
My 18 mos old boy fell of in our sofa/couch with his head
Hi… I was just worried that my son fell from our couch through his head and it’s really hard cause I loudly heard a big blog and after saw him lying on the floor while his feet on air still… My heartbeat stop that moment And feel sorry for my child for what had happened. Then I gave him water afterwards but keep on crying for just about 5 mins. Although he gets back into his normal routine… I’m still worried if he had an internal hemorrhage or what. Don’t have family member to help me, that’s why I’m too much worried.
My 7 month baby fell off the bed.
I was so worried she fell. She fell facing the floor. I kept apologizing to her. I feel so guilty for not putting her on the floor or putting her in her crib in the first place. That was the worst thud I heard in my life. She cried then went right back to her normal self, playing and cooing. I will be watching her all night tonight.
my son fell off the bed abt 2hours ago!!!
Today started off fine, I had a good nights’ sleep. Had a run when I woke up (my son has a nanny). On to top it all off, my son officially turns 9mos today! Anyway, had a nap and woke up around 10ish to get ready for work. I heard my son mumbling downstairs so I told the nanny to bring him up in the bedroom where I was getting ready. I usually just go on ahead with fixing myself while I watch my son from a tiny distance (about 3feet) on our bed surrounded with pillows. I just give him stuff to keep him interested and put. if I have to get something on the other room, I bring him with me. I usually never leave him alone. I was abt close to getting done when he started to get a lil handful so I yelled for the nanny to come get him, I yelled twice – she didn’t hear me. So I strategically placed my son on the center of the bed and again surround him with pillows so I can yell a lot closer at the door for the nanny to hear me calling for her. But just when I was just finished yelling, I turned my head and saw my son at the edge of our bed about to fall. I leaped quickly but it was too late. BAMM he fell off hitting his forehead on our wooden floor.
I tell you, my heart skipped a beat like 10 times over!! My baby cried but was back laughing his cute tiny butt off after 15mins. Even ate his lunch right after he stopped crying!! I skipped work to keep an eye on him. All I can say is, it freaked me out even if he’s already out there strolling like nothing just happened. Thank God for guardian angels!!!
7 month old fell from bed
My 7 month old just fell off the bed 3 hours ago! I had just finished giving him his bath and he was sitting on the bed and I was applying cream on his body- turned around to keep the lotion back on the table and he fell on his head and I watched in agony as he fell straight on his head. He also scraped his nose so it was a smudged with a little blood. Called 9/11 and after 3 hours of nonstop crying, he is fast asleep in his crib and I am going to check on him every hour or so just to make sure he’s doing okay. Doctor said that as long as he acts normal and isn’t puking he should be fine. I feel so devastated and feel so pathetic that I let this happen to my little man. But to Error is human and we only learn from our mistakes!
Experience fatherly… hehehe!!!
I’m calm now… thanks to all of your sharing! I am now fine by all of your nice interaction… truly is all of god’s guardian angels designated one for our precious baby… God bless & Godspeed us all and have a happy baby setting to you all mom’s and dad’s like me! hehehe.
MY 4 1/2 MONTH BABY FELL OFF THE BED
I lay down my precious baby boy in the bed and went to the kitchen to do something but suddenly I heard a falling down sound I rush immediately to the room and I saw my precious baby is already lying on the cement floor I really feel that I’m the most horrible mom
my baby really cries hard I picked him up and do everything I could to make him stop he cries for almost 5 minutes I’m really worried because his head was hit on the cement floor after 5 minutes he stopped crying he become silent for more than 5 minutes now he seems okay but still I really worried for my baby
I’m just a first time mom so I really worry too much for my baby please give me some advice thank you
My 6.5 month old fell off bed yesterday
First I would like to thank each and every one of your for the first “Nothing to Worry” postings. I and my wife were terrified since last night after our daughter slipped off the bed. She was fast asleep and was laid in the far corner of the bed adjacent wall. It is still a mystery how she managed to come to the edge of the bed and slipped. Thankfully, in the morning she was normal (feeding well, eating well, and playing normal as usual). I booked an ad-hoc appointment with my pediatrician today and took her for a check-up to double confirm. The doc studied her and said she is all fine and nothing to worry. Just back from hospital and she is doing fine now. Does anyone wonder what I am going to do next? – Simple, dismantle the cot and lay the bed on the floor until my little one grows. Thanks to everyone once again and initially when I entered this forum I was relieved to see that we were not alone in the world 🙂 Good luck and take care of your babies. May God be with every kid.
7 month old fell off bed
Thank you all so much for your comments.
I usually put my son to sleep breastfeeding in my bed. So I did the same thing as usual, put him to sleep, surrounded him with pillows and went to study for my midterm in the other room. I always do this and he is always fine. I kick myself for not realizing that since he is starting to move around a bunch I should not leave him alone in my bed but it is so hard to get him to fall asleep elsewhere. Usually I transfer him from my bed to his while he is asleep but I didn’t this time. I heard a loud thud and then him screaming and my heart sank. I feel like such a bad mom. I usually check on him like crazy but since I was studying, I was distracted.
I called 911 and a paramedic came and said just to keep an eye on him but he seems fine. No blood, no marks, and he is happy and laughing. I still feel like everyone else including my husband is underreacting! I guess I must be the one underreacting. I hope he is ok. I love him so much, I am going to be monitoring him and NEVER leaving him alone in my bed again.
My 7 month old fell off the bed .
First off I have a comment for the people that are posting on this thread saying that others aren’t watching their kids or being bad parents. How did you run across this thread? Why are you reading it? Just so you can pass judgement on people who are asking for help over this kind of situation?
I have raised 5 kids I am overly protective and if one of my kids gets hurt its devastating. 2 of my children are grown up 3 live at home still one is only 7 months old and she is my little princess. I am so overly protective over her and am the first to be angry when she gets hurt in others care. About an hour ago I was sitting on my bed with her playing games making kissy face fart noises whatever I could to get those smiles I love to see. I turned for a second to put a bowl on the dresser and she slinked right over my leg in a millisecond and slipped right onto the floor. This is the first time anything like this has ever happened to me. She is fine though I checked her soft spot for swelling made sure she responded to her name and the typical things that made her laugh after she stopped crying. These kinds of things happen and in all cases its best to ask someone that has had a few kids because I ASSURE you something like this has happened to them.
1 year old fell of the bed
My one year old just fell off the bed I panic she seems to be ok now I feel better reading other parents post here
7 months fall off the high chair
He fall face down of his high chair, it was loose….I underestimate his movements. He is fine, he cried for 5-10 minutes, brought him outside for some fresh air, gave him a bath, put his pj and cuddled him for a bit. Now, he is sleeping, he seems fine. I thank God that h had protected my baby. As a mother, I feel very guilty. We have to have eyes everywhere 🙂
My 11 month old baby fall down from a very high sofa will anything happen ?
My baby just fall down from a very high sofa will anything happen to him? He still eat and play but I am still very worry
7mnth old fell off the bed
My baby fell off the bed yesterday, I just took my eye off her for a split seconds and I heard a loud thud, I was scared out of my skin, she had a bump on the side of her forehead, I consoled her and gently massaged the bump, I later put ice on it for her, she cried for some minutes but she’s fine….she took a nap for about 10mins and is now back to her playful self. Though I still feel so bad about it, I kept replaying the scene in my head I wish I could have prevented it.
My little boy is 6 months old and he fell off of our bed last night. Our bed isn’t very tall because it’s just a mattress on the floor since we have no frame. I went to check on him and he was asleep next to his daddy. I went to switch out my laundry and that’s when I heard a loud THUD and my baby screaming. I dropped my laundry and ran into my room. And there he was lying on the floor at the foot of the bed. I picked him up looked him over and saw that he had a bump on his head and also a small one by his eye. I felt like the worst mom in the world and still do. I called our pediatrician and they told me not to worry that he would be fine but today he has a bruise on his little forehead. :'( he seems to be fine today acting and playing like normal. so any one have any advice as to help me stop beating myself up over what happened.? I am 19 yrs old and this is my first baby.
3.5 mth old falling
My 3.5 mth old just rolled out of my arms and fell while I was sitting on the couch and nodded off briefly. I was horrified when I was jolted out of my sleep by the crying, what’s worse, it happened before my 5 yr old son who promptly ran to tell his father. It did not help when he asked me how I could let that happen.
I feel like a horrible mother and a failure, she seems fine thank God, but I’m sure I won’t be for a few days.
My 9 month old fell off the bed onto a bedside cabinet
My daughter has fell out of the bed onto the corner of a bedside cabinet I am so worried as she has a really big bump on her forehead and she was sick straight after but within 5 mins she was fine and playing what should I do plzzz help.
One vomit is OK
by: Paula (Baby Helpline)
The general guideline is that if your baby just vomited once and is then completely normal, she is likely to be fine. But if she vomits again, becomes unusually sleepy, is weak or confused or seems to have any type of problems with coordination or vision, you need to take her to a doctor immediately.
Remember to watch her during the next couple of days for any of the above symptoms.
My 6 months old bay fell down from bed
My 6 months baby fell down from the bed in the wee hrs about 4.30 am two days back. We checked all her body we found that she was crying when we touch her left arm. And she is as fine as she was normal no other complaints.
We rushed to the pediatrician and he suggested for x-ray, and it was normal. As she was feeling pain, he prescribed a tonic.
On the next day morning, we observed that her right arm with swelling then again rushed to the same Dr and again gone for x-ray and we found no fracture.
Then he suggested to consult orthopedic doctor, and the orthopedic told that babies never get fractured as their bones are like elastic and he suggested with the same medicine.
And today my baby is suffering from cough since morning and she vomited in the noon and evening.
Then we are very worried is it due to the injury to head when she fell off from the bed or due to her cough. We are rushing to the hospital again.
I request your suggestion.
14month old fell from car seat onto cement 🙁 help
This afternoon my 14 month old fell out of her car seat head first onto cement. We had just stopped at the market for a few things I had her in the cart while I was placing the bags in the car I just finished putting them in when cart boy came for the cart I quick grabbed her and placed her in her seat not buckling her in I just needed to get my purse out the cart and then I was going to buckle her in. In that split second I turn to see her falling out head first. She has a road rash and bruises on her forehead. 🙁 She cried so hard for about 15 minutes. She seemed fine but now (6hrs later) she is not sleeping well waking up and screaming. Should I get her checked out?
baby falling from bed
My baby fall from the bed and got hurt on his cheeks he was crying a lot and his cheeks where red and I gently washed water on his face but also he was crying after 1 hour he was quiet then I was happy
I was playing with my 20 month sister and accidently dropped her on her face and she started crying for some time and some blood from her nose came out. My family took her to the hospital (I didn’t go because their all kind of sick of me right now,) but on her way out she seemed to be calming down a bit. Any advice that could possibly help me evaluate the situation?
8 month old fell off bed
It’s about 3 feet high I put big pillows and blankets all around him but it did not matter I heard him moving I ran in just in time to see him flip over hitting his head and land on his back. I feel terrible! I will be waking him up every hour on the hour tonight. I feel so bad. I am worse than he is he cried for a couple of minutes but is back to playing. Where he hit feels flat should I worry it was carpeted. Dr says watch for vomiting but I feel bad.
Baby fell off bed 2-3feet high leads to interrogation
Don’t leave your baby on a couch bed or anything high. Leave them on the floor in a play pen or play yard. I put my 7 month old daughter down for a quick second to get lotion in the same room on the dresser and then heard a huge thump. I turned to see her on her side crying. I felt so bad I picked her up and tried to calm her down.
I called and made and made an appointment. She didn’t throw up or have any bumps or lumps. I still feel bad about it. This was the first time and when I was in for her appt the pediatrician wasn’t even concerned or checking her joints or eyes for normal reaction or pain that made me pissed she only checked her head.
Oh and may I add she called a social worker in and they were interrogating me like I said this was the first time it happened.
My suggestion is you might as well check for these symptoms on your own. Did the baby lose consciousness, are they bleeding anywhere, did they vomit, acting normal?
If they are acting different or vomit and not eating normally, call a pediatrician.
It could be serious
Above comments make you think if baby falls down from a table top or a tree top and bump on his head there’s nothing to worry about.
This is totally wrong. A fall on the head could have serious consequences for the baby and cause a sudden loss of vision, brain damage, concussion, vomiting, dizziness or nose bleed. It may require urgent treatment and/or surgery. Only the doctor is able to assess the damage. It is not to be taken lightly or left to chance.
I know a case where the child fell upon his face on the floor and lost his sight instantly. The doctor said his retina was damaged due to bleeding in the inside of the eye and needed an operation when he grew up in order to be able to see again. After a few years of treatment and surgical procedures on the eyes his vision still could not be completely restored.
Another cousin of mine fell down from some height in her childhood and ever since she has suffered recurring hysterical fits and related illnesses and can’t have a normal life. That’s sad and too bad just because of one moment of recklessness.
So BEWARE all Moms!!!
My 7months baby fell off the bed too
by: Paranoid Mom
I wanted to share this also to lessen my guilt because I really felt responsible of my baby’s falling off the bed.
It happened yesterday at 7am. Usually my baby would sleep in a cradle or in a crib, but since it’s my rest day, I took the time to really make it up with her, sleep with her and to watch her the whole day. She was already awake then, I even mixed a bottle of milk and I’m supposed to be awake as well but since it was raining, I laid and went back to sleep until I heard as if something dropped and next was my baby’s crying laying down on the floor.
I immediately picked her up and my husband was already yelling and panicking although he’s trying to hold his temper. My baby cried for like 10-15mins.
I didn’t expect it to happen, because I put some pillows around so as to avoid that the baby would fall down. But it was too late.
For now she’s okay and back to normal again. After an hour she slept after an hour and drank her milk. We were supposed to bring her to the doctor yesterday but there’s a storm, so I just watch her while I’m crying, hold her hand and always saying sorry for being so careless.
I even called my mom and prayed for her over the phone. My mom comforted me and said everything is okay, just have faith in the Lord that she’ll be alright. Still I was crying all night and kept on blaming myself for what had happened.
I really do hope and pray that my baby is well. I just love her so much and I don’t know what to do if something bad happened to her. She’s just so small. I’m already paranoid.
We might bring her to a doctor today to undergo examination, x-ray or whatever steps necessary to make sure she’s fine. It’s just now I realize that health is so much more important than money. I even prayed hard that He can take away all we have invested, money and everything but not to harm my baby.
From now on I promised to always take extra precautions on my baby. I also thank my family for always being there to comfort me.
My 15 month baby girl fell from a king bed
My baby girl fell from the bed today she was walking around in front of me and all of a sudden she took off to the other side of the bed and fell. She hit her forehead and under her eye.
I felt so guilty. She threw up twice but after 5 min she was back to normal. But had a little bit of trouble walking. She fell on her butt a few times but seemed to be ok. I guess the angels never left her side.
9 month old fell off bed and broke collar bone
My mom watched my 9 month old son for my year anniversary with my boyfriend at our campground, and he fell off the tall bed she has. She didn’t call me until they were about to go home. But he was acting cranky like he had a bruise underneath his arm. He was using it and it clearly was not broken, but I obviously was freaking out and decided to take him to the emergency room the second she brought him home, because I’d rather waste my time and be safe than sorry.
Well, that was the right thing because it turns out he had a closed fracture in his collar bone! It broke my heart completely, and to this day my mother is devastated and doesn’t set him down when she sees him.
He was a great little trooper though, and was back to getting into everything within two days. But I’d still always rather be safe than sorry if anything were to ever seem wrong. Don’t beat yourself up, just make sure your little acrobat is fine. 🙂 They won’t remember anyways.
2 boys= too many oows!!
My sons are 3yrs and 22 months. (They are both climbing on the sofa as I write this)
I have learned that my favorite purchase is called bed rails. They are cheap $20 at Toys R Us. They are designed for twin size beds, but if you put 1 on each side of your bed they help.
Every day I slide them under my mattress. Trust me, my sons are always getting hurt. (My 3 yr old got stitches a year ago on the right side of his forehead because he tried going up TWO stairs and hit the corner.
My 9 months baby fell too
My 9 months baby girl fell off the bed while I was in a deep sleep last night. Thanks God that she is fine and play as normal now.
My 9months brother fell
My stepdad made my brother fall on the table, letting my brother twist his arm and he cried soo much like for 10min and after like 5 min every time my mom touches his arm he will cry so hard. She was gonna take him to the hospital but now they decided to stay and do nothing just because he’s playing with he’s toys. And my stepdad (I really hate him sooo much) he is saying oh don’t worried he’s fine, all babies fall and cry for a long time and then they are fine… Should I tell my mom to take him to the hospital?
Comment by EasyBabyLife: I am sorry to hear about your brother’s fall. Whether to take him to the hospital or not will depend on if he continues to be in pain if someone touches his arm or if he seems reluctant or unable to use it. Sometimes baby do cry for a long time without it being anything serious, but watch him carefully over the next few hours to see how things develop.
10 mnth from approx. 2ft
My baby girl fell from my bed and I took her to the doctor, he told me the first 10 hours are the most critical, she is fine, still her good old self, but it is always good to hear from the doctor that she is fine.
Is she going to be ok?
Me and my 8month old daughter were playing on the bed all I did was look away for a second and look back to not see her but hear screaming. She has a big knot and a bruise on her forehead.
3 year old boy fell down
my 3 year old boy fell down yesterday the height wasn’t too high but a when I checked him his head a bit of Swelling with reddish mark with but he was normal and playing what should I do ..
Thank you, thank you for all of your comments and words of encouragement. My 8 month old fell off of our bed today as well. I normally watch her like a hawk, but she was sleeping, and I went to answer the door for just a minute when she must have woken up and edged off the bed. I felt TERRIBLE!! It’s one of those things you often don’t talk about with friends for fear of them judging, but I’m so glad that I could hear all of these consoling words from all of you. She cried for only a couple minutes and I felt all over her body for bumps or pain. I tried to stay calm and reassuring for her sake – hard as that was to do. She now is playing and being her normal giggly self, so I’ll watch her for the next couple of days and NEVER will I leave her on the bed alone – I never want to go through something like this again if I can help it!
8 months old baby gal fell from de bed and der was a bleeding from her ear
8 months old baby gal fell from de bed and der was a bleeding from her ear. We are at hospital now…. plzz anyone care to share what should be done and is der anything to worries ….will really appreciate ..de mother is damn worried and crying nonstop.
Same thing just happenned
My 6 month old son fell from our bed. I don’t understand he always sleeps next to me on the bed. As he goes deep into his sleep he always rotate change sides and I never worried much about his rotating. Today around 1am heard a bang and next thing I look He is on the carpet. I was so shocked to pick him I just scream and my husband picked him up. He cried for minutes and went back to sleep. I couldn’t stop crying checked his limbs everything is fine but I feel like a failure and a bad mother I don’t understand how he ended up on the floor. I can’t get sleep but my husband is snoring again. Men! I feel so terrible and blame myself. Just gonna keep checking him
my 6 month fell last night too
wow its amazing 2 c how common this is n it seems like in most cases is babies turn out fine but only very few cases is very serious…
I told my fiancé I was dead tired n headed 2 bed, so she leaves the baby in the bed for me 2 watch n I just suggested 2 put him in the crib…she rushed in 4 a bath n I dosed off next thing I hear a BANG! I freaked out seen my boy face down on the vinyl tile floor…my girl screamed as she heard the hit; I picked him up; he cried for just a min…baby seemed ok no sign of trauma…we felt so guilty; I still feel like crap…my stomach turned n I got nauseous n became eery..we took him 2 the ER…DOC took a quick look n said he was fine…my girl puked soo much outside the ER for like 20 mins she was soo nervous…This is heartbreaking 2 any caring parent…at this point all we can do is pray that is just like the doc said n he will be just fine…definitely gonna b more careful next time…
I never felt soo guilty in my life. My poor kid is also battling some sort of stomach virus which is keeping him irritable so this is our 2 trip 2 the ER bk 2 bk plus a docs visit…n 2 top it off I just had sinus surgery…it’s been a very crazy week indeed for us here dealing w all this but I guess the trick is 2 realize that it’s all part of life, things happen n as the adults we have 2 remain calm cool n collected in order 2 protect our families n young ones…a prayer 2 all the parents out there dealing w diff times…god bless u all n may we all come ahead winners in the end n b able 2 laugh about it later…my advice as a father of 2 boys is simply whenever ur unsure whether u should take ur child 2 the doctor’s office or ER, simply just go, is better 2 b safe than sorry, plus early detection n prevention r always best medicines…everything material can be replaced except ur little wonders…we live thru them n they will outlive us…
Today my 2 years old baby brother was running and he jumped on my bed and he fell and a pease of his noise got cut but luckily it was a littel cut.so if that happened to your baby brother catch him.
Bumping Heads and Falls off Beds
My little girl is nearly 7 months and last week she would sit on the floor and go to reach for something and bang her head on the floor… One bruise… She did it twice in the same day.
If you couldn’t see the bruise the first time, you could see it then. About an hour ago she fell off my bed. I know she can crawl, sit up and even stand holding on to stuff. But, she was fast asleep on my lap on the couch and I had to Pee SOOOOOO bad, so I laid her down for like 20 seconds, however long it takes to tinkle.
Then I heard the loudest Pound on my hardwood floor and I almost sh** myself. Not only did she fall 3 1/2 feet, but she hit the wooden bed frame on the way down. She was crying and stunned, I made sure she could move her arms and legs, toes and neck before picking her up, once I did, it didn’t take long for her to stop crying.
Put some ice on it and gave her pedia care, made sure she could pick up her toys and stand, sit, pull up…she was fine.
She has a huge lump with a scratch and right now she’s bouncing in her doorway swing. She was always curious about what was off the bed, always trying to look…well, it’s a lesion in depth perception.
A lot further down than you think!
my baby is vomiting a few hours after falling!
by: Anna’s mom
Anna is my first baby she’s just turned 5 months, a few days ago she fell from her chair into the carpet and bumped her head. She started crying but when I held her she stopped. I called her doctor, and he said to watch her 24 hours for vomiting, paleness or loss of conscious. A few hours later she ate her bottle and vomited in small amount, I thought it was normal, but now after 3 days she’s still vomiting in small amounts, even after 2 hours from eating. The doctor said she’s ok, but I’m very worried should I seek a second opinion? Is this normal?
My baby fell off the bed too. Saddddddd…..
I thought it would never happen to my 6 month old baby….cos I’m a careful dad. However, it happened yesterday. Despite putting pillow and bolster around the bed, she managed to crawl pass the comforter and fell off the bed. I was dozing off at that moment! When it happened, I thought and hoped it was just a bad dream….cos I couldn’t see her on her cot. When her cries persisted, I realized then that it’s really her and she had really really really fallen off the bed.
She seemed ok. Playing and drinking and no vomiting so far. Her eye is blue black though. Feeling really really bad though.
Will con’t to monitor her. Praying that her guardian angel will watch over her, protect her and take good care of her…
My one month one week old
It seems like my 5 week old likes to beat herself up on my body parts. I was breast feeding her and she started to slide off the pillow and I put my hand under her head quick to catch her head and she smacked the back of her head off my hand. Then 10 min later I was finishing feeding her and she lifted her head and then plopped it back down on my arm. Should I worry about anything? I mean she usually does something like this, when I or anyone holds her she likes to hit her head off the person’s chest. I don’t know why. Should I worry about this? She doesn’t cry and she acts like her normal self.
My five months old fell off from the bed 3 days ago
It was on Friday morning, after got up 3 times to feed him. When I got up second times to feed him it seems someone try to show or to tell me in my eyes I saw my baby was felling from our bed but I just not really pay attention and get back to sleep as normal. And around between 9 to ten am it time for him to get up and rolling, playing…talking to himself same every morning I felt in sleep just one minute or two and so I heard a sound slamming floor and he start to creaming loud but after I pick him up he no more crying and acting normally and smile but to me tit now I still feel guilty and worry even my husband try to tell me he fine it okay. I think every baby always have Gad or some kind of Good spirit protected them, it is so true to me however I am thanks that my baby perfectly fine and I wish he have a bright future and growing as a good person for the family. I really release after I read all these comments I feel a lot of better now. Thank you so much!!
My 8months old baby fell off the bed. She was asleep on my bed n I quickly went to get water to drink n upon my return, I heard a loud scream n as I ran n opened the door, I met my angel on the floor crying. I felt very bad n started weeping cos she cried for about 2mins.
Never leave ur baby unattended. Put them in the cot if u must be out of sight even if it’s for a second.
MY 6 MTH OLD BABY FELL FRM THE BED THERE IS A COCO TO THE SIDE OF HIS HEAD…………WHAT SHD I DO
Need to know!!
For those of you who have taken your babies to get checked, did they get head or eyes x-rays done……. are x-rays safe, is it harmful for babies brain or eyes in any way…..
Thanks for the advise
My baby too fell down the bed following a loud cry, when checked I found nothing appeared in his body outside even the symptoms given above dint occur, Thanks to Jesus his Shepard who was aw
awake for him.
15month old falls
wooo ! While having dinner our granddaughter sitting on the kitchen table chair.
Makes an attempt to grabb her sister who is sitting next to her, baby loses grip, falls, hits her head “KA PLoNK” loud bump, baby cries.
We apply ice to back of her head for about a minute. All worried we take her to ER.
WITHIN 15M MIN SHE IS EXAMINED BY DOC ALL SEEMS FINE. EYES OK, NO SIGN ODF BLEEDING. Baby is EXTREAMLY ACTIVE, AND DRANK HER MILK / JUICE NO VOMITING…
Question: What part of the child’s head is more vulnerable to injurie?
A doctor told me once a child head is like
solid rock protecting the brain. If it blunt force yes damage but if it their own weight, not expected, but can happen !
My 9mos baby is sleeping in her bed. A few minutes later I heard a sound BANG!! And I run into her room and I saw her into the floor, crying out loud, my heart stop when I saw her, my hands are shaking. I don’t know what to do. This is the first time that happen. She’s crying for about 5mins after that she is back to normal. Thank God she has no symptoms of vomiting, loss of consciousness etc.
to anonymous on Jan 16
To your comment: We are not bad mothers, we move for a split second, they fall. Don’t try and act like you are perfect. We’re worried parents that try to do the right things on here. Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My 4 mo old baby boy
My hubby and I were vacuuming our house when I sat my baby on his swing. I turned to move the couch when I heard my baby cried turned to him and saw him laying on his back on the hard floor. I ran to pick him up and he stopped crying. He started smiling and cooing being himself. I was devastated and couldn’t stop crying. My hubby was taking care of our baby while trying to calm me down. I just feel like a horrible mother! I called th nurse and she said to watch for any vomiting, pupils, and check if he has a hard time waking when I try to wake him. I have an app with his ped. I pray to GOD that my baby is ok.
4foot fall hard linoleum
My son just fell for the second time from the bed 4 feet to the linoleum his mother was breast feeding him and fell asleep I then woke to a loud THUMP so scary. He fell the first time at 5 1/2 months old and the lump on his right side of forehead is still not completely gone he fell on same spot, I took him for cat scan first time and he was alright, he is now with his mother going for another CAT scan. Both times he didn’t pass out and only cried 2 minutes. Always better to just take them to be seen.
God saved her
my priceless angel just fell from the bed this evening, she was asleep even though I surrounded her with pillows I still can’t explain how I met her crying on the floor in a crawling position, well thank God she seems alright and smiled and played with me and her dad, I feel like a failure I was not there for her to make sure she didn’t fall but almighty God saved her and I pray for Gods protection on her
I have a 10 1/2 month old he fell holding onto one of the kitchen chairs and hit his head on the kitchen floor I am really worried about him I have been checking on him constantly his eyes seem to be dilating no blood coming out from the ears please help I am really worried about him
It’s about this baby issue.
I would like to know about my baby’s issue about falling off the bed. He’s almost 9 months old and fell off. I can’t hear the baby because I’m deaf. He cried for a few seconds then he was fine. He fell that again like 3rd time for another days so will he be okay? I’m a little scared.
6 month old baby fell for the 9th time
After reading all your posts, I felt relieved, my daughter just fell off of bed the yesterday and she starts to vomit every time I feed her. She had fever too, this is her 9th fell off of bed since she was still 1 month old. I’ll have her checked tomorrow to be sure about her condition. I am just worried about this now…
One time is a mistake that should never happen, 9 times? Really? You must be joking
At the second before my post
Pls do take your baby to the doctor, as vomiting is not a good sign. I pray your baby is well, amen.
I still cant get over it
I find so much peace reading these other stories. I am embarrassed to share this… but my 7.5 month old has fallen 2x in 2 months…last night I had dropped something and I went go get up and he was crawling like the speed of light and fell off my bed… I screamed like you know what he cried for about 5 seconds and I always check him but no bruises…I have been crying all day today and I just don’t know what to do… he is fine acting normal didn’t fall on his head…I just can’t deal…
Mommy real worry
Today my 9 month fell off the couch. I left him drinking his bottle while I went to go wash my hands. Then I heard a stomp. After reading all these comments, I feel little calm. Thank you.
Bad mummy! 🙁
While sleeping I hear a loud thump and cry! My 5 mth old is on the floor crying 🙁 It just happened 🙁 I stayed up with him for 30 mins playing it’s 3:14 am and he has been sleeping for 20 mins … Just lying here watching him, making sure he is ok :/ I’m so tired and worried …. But I’ll stay up for another couple of hours till hubby wakes so he can watch him…
Bad mummy :,(
Don’t underestimate you’re little one or be overconfident!
My baby girl has fallen three times, the first time was ridiculous because I was standing right next to her she seemed she wouldn’t go anywhere she was on her back facing toward me and I was standing beside her fixing her bow, her butt was close to the edge but not anywhere where I thought she could fall, My mattress cover is huge for our bed and I guess when she was kicking away it slide her down, she fell faster than I could catch her I totally lost it, I couldn’t believe she fell with me right next to her. I took her straight to the E.R. Thankfully, she was fine.
The second time at five months is when we moved to my MIL we have a small room It’s hard to keep her in her crib bc she wants to see what’s going on, so anyway I laid her on her back On my bed close to the middle and stepped away for a min to plug in my phone, it’s literally a couple of steps away from where I can still see her, I look away for second and she had somehow rolled off, I panicked I was so mad at myself and took her to the E.R AGAIN, she was okay, this time I hate even saying this time!
I sat her on her bottom on the bed she sits up now at 6m her dresser is three steps away from the bed.
I went to grab her dress for the day and that’s all it took for her to try and follow me right off the bed, she is ok Dr. said she looks great, but I can’t forgive myself for underestimating her, it’s sadder though because since she was born she has not left my site, Were also EBF and very close and I just feel awful because I’m all she knows. She’s very strong and ready to explore.
I have vowed to keep her off the bed entirely unless I’m sitting with her other than that she has been put in her crib now when I walk a few steps away, PERIOD!
PLEASE, parents, don’t underestimate these little ones they adapt and learn so quickly, and so should we! Always put them in their bed they’ll get over it and it’s better to be safe than sorry, I completely hate it took three times to learn, and I am very blessed that she is okay.
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