I had a miscarriage about 2 months ago, I was devestated. And to make matters worse, we had to spend 8 hours in the emergency room before they finally told us what by that point I already knew. My husband and had been so excited at the idea of being parents, and this being our first pregnancy we told everyone, & having to tell them all that we had lost it was awful. The entire situation seemed to drag on forever. The bleeding/spotting lasted near 2 weeks, and it seemed like it was doctors appointment after doctors appointment. I have seen more doctors in the past 2 months than I have in the past 10 years! The worst part of my situation was that a close friend of ours is also pregnant and we were due just 2 days apart. It has been over 2 months since my miscarriage and it still kills me to see them.
A short while ago we were finally given the okay to start trying again, and we have but I have heard so many people say that they tried for months before finally conceivng, and I dread having to wait that long. We so want to start our family, we already have the nursery pretty well finished, and everything is ready.. all that is missing is a little baby. It kills me that my friend, who is not prepared at all gets to have a baby, and I am left with an empty nursery.