No Sex Drive Five Kids
I have had 5 childen so I'm pretty tired all the time anyway, even though I have a fantastic husband that does help loads with all the chores around the house it's still draining when you're with the kids all through the day whilst he's at work.
For the last 3 children I've had I have breastfeed each one for a year and during that time wasn't having periods and absolutely no sex drive what so ever, then I stopped breastfeeding and my periods came back then my sex drive was getting better and decided to try for another baby and fell pregnant straight away. Then my sex drive disappeared again. 9 mths later I gave birth, breastfeed for a year, periods came back, sex drive came back and wanted another baby and fell pregnant straight away again and sex drive once again completely disappeared.
I am still feeding the newest addition and she's just over a year. Within the last 3 years I experienced sex/love making fewer then 10 times. I am in my early 30's. The way I feel now I could quite happily go without. But it's no good for the marriage. We need to both be happy. What do I do when im feeling so negative to the whole love making thing?????
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