FINALLY Enjoying Sex Again After Childbirth
by New Mommy
(Orlando, FL, USA)
Before baby, I was a multi-orgasmic wife! Our sex life was fantastic!
Then due to a short cervix, bed/pelvic rest during pregnancy (I was not even allowed an orgasm by alternate means), hours of pushing with no results during labor and finally a C-section... it was time to wait to be cleared 6 weeks post-partum to avoid infection. When I was cleared, sex was literally the LAST thing on my mind. I would get annoyed when my husband would try.
My son is 4 months old now, I AM breastfeeding exclusively (which contributes to a low sex drive) and sex if FINALLY beginning to be enjoyable. The last time we had sex, I was in a constant state of euphoria for so long (without orgasm) that I got tired before I was able to orgasm. The entire next day I walked around all day aroused until we had sex again.
I haven't achieved multiple orgasm yet, and my G-spot has definately shifted, it takes a little more time to get into the mood for sex now, not to mention, the baby has to be in a deep sleep!
But sex is now feeling good again, and hopefully someday soon, I can re-learn to have multiple-orgasms again.
There IS sex-life after baby - I wouldn't have believed it a month ago! (Also due to bed rest during pregnancy, my body changed a LOT, I'm working on regaining confidence in my looks, but my husband is WONDERFUL at making me feel sexy!)
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