Baby Passing Out

Baby Passing Out

by Yessenia
(Lubbock)

My son is 13 months old, and since he started walking 3 months ago, he of course has been clumsy and tripping and falling. But when he hits his head he cries, I run to pick him up and he stops crying and breathing for a few seconds, before you know it he gets all stiff and blacks out for a few seconds. The whole time, I'm blowing air in his face (hard), and kinda patting his back, and telling him he's okay. When he finally opens his little eyes, he takes a deep breath, cries for a few seconds, then he looks really tired and acts really melo.

I've asked his pediatrician about it the last 3 times I've taken him in for check ups. He says it's just him freaking out from the fall, and he passes out because of lack of oxygen to the brain, not from the hit itself. I have 3 kids, this only happened to my 4 year old once. I took him to the ER and they told me the exact same thing. But my baby does this I'd say about once every couple weeks.

I just want to know if anyone's going through this...I try to be around him all the time to avoid accidents, but it's hard to keep up...

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Sep 29, 2009

My Grand-daughter does too!
by: Baby Help Line: Annie

Hi Yessenia,

My Grand-daughter has exactly the same thing, has a fall, then faints. And her parents were given the same advice as you were from the pediatricians. So it is not uncommon!

As parents we want to protect our children and stop them from getting hurt. When something does happen like a fall, we tend to rush over in a panic, fearful that our child is badly hurt. We make a big fuss and unfortunately our anxiety and fear is transmitted to our babies and it increases their fear and shock.

Falling over and bumping heads is part of growing up and learning to take risks. Babies need to be able to explore and challenge their bodies to learn new skills. They do get a fright sometimes when they loose control and fall, but we make it worse by our reaction. By making a big event out of it we increase the child’s shock.

Sure you need to make sure that they haven't really done any damage, but mostly little children are so relaxed when they fall, there is seldom anything other than a little bruise.

Yessenia, you are obviously a very caring and loving Mom, but just see if you can back off a bit and make it more light hearted. "Woopsie" or "up you hop" - or wait a few seconds and check first, do you need a cuddle? Running in panic to him is not helping! Just try to trust that he is learning to control his world and yes the will be a few bumps and bruises on the way, but you offer him so much more when you keep control of your panic reaction and empower him to keep trying.

Some kids left to their own devices would have a tumble, a bit of a surprised cry then go and do exactly the thing they were attempting before the fall. How’s that for a lesson in perseverance! Our kids can teach us a lot about learning and trying and taking risks!

Your little boy is clearly very tuned in and sensitive to your emotions, so focus on having fun and enjoying him, rather than worry or anxiety.

All the best,

Annie Desantis

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Sep 29, 2009
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Hi Yessenia, My Grand-daughter has exactly the same thing, has a fall, then faints. And her parents were given the same advice as you were from the pediatricians. So it is not uncommon! As parents we want to protect our children and stop them from getting hurt. When something does happen like a fall, we tend to rush over in a panic, fearful that our child is badly hurt. We make a big fuss and unfortunately our anxiety and fear is transmitted to our babies and it increases their fear and shock. Falling over and bumping heads is part of growing up and learning to take risks. Babies need to be able to explore and challenge their bodies to learn new skills. They do get a fright sometimes when they loose control and fall, but we make it worse by our reaction. By making a big event out of it we increase the child’s shock. Sure you need to make sure that they haven't really done any damage, but mostly little children are so relaxed when they fall, there is seldom anything other than a little bruise. Yessenia, you are obviously a very caring and loving Mom, but just see if you can back off a bit and make it more light hearted. "Woopsie" or "up you hop" - or wait a few seconds and check first, do you need a cuddle? Running in panic to him is not helping! Just try to trust that he is learning to control his world and yes the will be a few bumps and bruises on the way, but you offer him so much more when you keep control of your panic reaction and empower him to keep trying. Some kids left to their own devices would have a tumble, a bit of a surprised cry then go and do exactly the thing they were attempting before the fall. How’s that for a lesson in perseverance! Our kids can teach us a lot about learning and trying and taking risks! Your little boy is clearly very tuned in and sensitive to your emotions, so focus on having fun and enjoying him, rather than worry or anxiety. All the best, <a href="http://www.easybabylife.com/annie-desantis.html">Annie Desantis</a>

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Nov 21, 2009

Passing out
by: donna

My little girl does exactly the same. Its every time she falls backwards, she is two now and has been happening since she was one. Its happened at home in the playground a at school!! Its the most terrifing thing ever to feel your baby go limp and lifeless when you go to pick them up. I wish some one could give some more in depth answer. I also have a little boy older who has never done this.

Jan 03, 2010

Passing Out
by: Anonymous

My daughter just did that for the first time but it was not after a fall. My neighbor was leaving and she got upset (she loves our neighbor). She was crying in my arms and cried out and would not breath back in. I tried to blow in her face but she went limp. When I laid her on the ground she started breathing and crying again.

I have known for a while that this is not uncommon. I was once told by a Pediatric Neurologist that it is actually partly developmental. He said that there is a trigger mechanism in the brain that makes them breath back in when they are crying. Sometimes with some children this mechanism fails and they don't breath in. He said it is ok and they grow out of it.

I was always worried that my son would do this because he would cry out until his face was bright red, but never passed out. My daughter is the same way and guess this time she just did it a little too long.

I know it is very upsetting to any parent and it was for me even though I knew it was ok.

Jan 06, 2010

My daughter
by: Anonymous

Everything that you are saying is the exact same thing that my daughter does.. Except one night she was running a fever and she was sleeping and all of a sudden she screamed so my husband grabbed her she was having a seizure so we rushed her to the hospital and he said it wasnt anything thing major but i explained the whole passing out thing and he says thats not her passing thats her having a seizure so now i dont know what to think.. Because i had one doctor tell me it was her holding her breath another tell me to get her checked and and the er doc tell me she has been having seizures this whole time.... So what do I do!!!!!

Jan 07, 2010

Passing out with Temp vs holding breath
by: Baby Help Line - Annie

Hi,

When a child has a temperature and passes out that is completely different from the breath holding thing, and you are right it is dangerous. That is one of the reasons it is really important to get a child's temperature down when they are running a fever.

It is always better to check with your Doctor if you are worried your child may be unwell. Never rely on internet information - ours included!

Annie Desantis

Feb 10, 2010

same thing
by: Anonymous

I also have a 16 month old son who has been doing this exact same thing. Falling down, bumping his head, and crying until he passes out. I am glad to see it is not uncommon. I have been very freaked out.

Jul 05, 2010

Same here!
by: Anonymous

i'm so relieved to read all the other comments, because my 9 month old just fell and went out of breath, all blue in the face until it looked like a type of unconcious state where his eyes were not straight...then all of a sudden he was fine again! i completely freaked out & am so glad to here its common....

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